This article gives alot of detail about that school meeting with the counselor:
A school counselor who interacted with alleged murderer Ethan Crumbley testified Thursday about what led up to a deadly school shooting in Michigan on Nov. 30, 2021.
lawandcrime.com
There is nothing said about the counselor talking alone with the parents. Obviously, he talked alone with Ethan before the parents came to the meeting. The counselor said he did not leave Ethan alone.
Jennifer stopped the meeting abruptly by asking "Are we done?"
The meeting ended “abruptly,” Hopkins said.
“Are we done?” Jennifer Crumbley allegedly asked him.
He said Ethan Crumbley “wanted to return to class.”
Hopkins said a dean told him that there was “no” disciplinary reason as to why Crumbley could not return to class. Hopkins testified that he wrote a pass for Ethan to return to class and told him that he cared about him.
“I care about my students, and I cared about him in that moment particularly because I thought it was a really rough situation to be showing signs of needing — of needing support,” the counselor said. “And it felt like he got the opposite when I tried to get him that help and support.”
Ethan didn’t cry. His parents didn’t try to hug him or touch him. Ethan didn’t respond to the counselor’s statement of support, Hopkins said.
Hopkins said he checked to make sure he was “being marked present” for his additional courses in an attempt to ensure he wasn’t alone.
Hopkins said he was planning to follow up with Ethan Crumbley the next morning.
That plan was cut short ........