First time posting- hello all! I have read every page and every comment on this forum since the beginning and finally feel compelled to jump in.
you should get a gold-star for that effort. a lot of repeat posts and thoughts. kudos.
1) I do NOT believe she had any sort of sexual relationship or affair with FG. Judging purely from her last few relationships, I feel like her type of guy is more hipster-y than FG.
Maybe DS grew tired of hipsters and their funny facial hair and vinyl records and skinny jeans and their borderline-narcissistic lifestyles? I dunno.
FG seems like an all-american type, coached little league (someone mentioned up thread), trying to be a firefighter or paramedic, etc. Maybe after years of dating hipster-ish types, DS liked the idea of a guy who teaches kids how to hit a curve-ball, rescues kittens from trees and then relaxes with a Bud-Light and the game at the end of the day.
She likes mountain men, guys who camp, hike, eat healthy. From the (limited amount of) pics I've seen of FG, he didn't strike me as that type, but I could be wrong. Friendly, perhaps, relationship, no. JMO, obvi, and of course sometimes people venture outside of their "type." But it's my feeling if there was any sort of attraction, it was coming from him only.
This would be my take, too. I think. Esp with FG's domestic situation But, again, heart wants what it wants
2) This thought has been nagging at me and I think you guys can help put it to rest if it's completely implausible. Could FG be missing/hiding or is he definitely around?
Interesting thought. His lawyer did say his client isn't talking to the police, same as any "normal"? person; which implies he/the lawyer at least talks to FG. But that could be by phone from a different state even.
3) Otherwise, the other way she could still be alive (I HATE saying it like that but don't know how else to put it) is if he trafficked her. I heard the the ice arena next door to him was becoming a hub for illegal activity (this could be a complete rumor though), so could he have snatched her and given her to someone to make some extra money?
BOLO for a pair of hispanic women in an SUV?
re: ice arena. Someone up thread noted it's been closed and is still closed, due to water issues? Google Earth view of that area and it's a great place to have people come to, park over by the ice arena/Robina, and walk over to your place. So you don't have a lot of obvious traffic at your house. And the neighbors either didn't see anything or aren't saying they saw anything (at least not on camera)
4) My strongest theory, and I've thought this before FG came into the picture, is that she was buying some weed at her apartment complex. She strikes me as a casual smoker, like many of my friends. I've never smoked enough to have a dealer, but I've had stoner friends who LOVE having someone to smoke with, because they usually smoke alone. They'll practically beg you to hang out and smoke with them.
Very true. I doubt that was the plan that day, to hang out and have a smoke session. More likely DS would've been meeting him that Friday to get a lil somethin' for the weekend.
But if they'd met up previously for such transactions, totally see them hanging out; at his or her place, and smoking for a few hours. It's almost
de rigueur among smokers not to just grab and go.
I am a little thrown off by the fact that the DEA didn't raid his house when LE had the warrant(s), but he could've been a casual dealer and not grower.
if he had anything in his house pre-DS going missing, he should've moved it out of his house that weekend. So by the time LE shows up the following week, they're mostly getting shake and chaff out of his rug or wherever.
True. He wouldn't have to be a full-on dealer. Just a guy who could get it and hooked up DS as a favor. Or they had a medical card in his house. So they could possess and even grow legally (to an extent)
He wouldn't even have to have been a smoker himself. Could've just offered to get it for DS as an in.