MI MI - Ruth Hoffman, 44, River Rouge, 30 June 1986

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Hi debbie, I don't know the answer to your question either. I just wanted to say Hi and wish you the best in finding answers about your Mom's disappearance.

I noticed it was your birthday the other day... :HappyBday hope you enjoyed it... :)
 
Hi Debbie,

I don't know what they are talking about when they say they are getting the books together on the cases. It kind of sounds like they are writing a book on each case chapter by chapter as the case unfold. They add a chapter as things happen in the case??? That is what I got out of it. It sounded like the chapters would be right there on the site. I could be wrong though.

Are LE doing anything on this case now? I would want to know why they ignored it for so many years. If that was my mother I think I would contact the Attorney General in your state and ask for an appointment. He is above all LE in that state. I would take all of my paperwork with me and start from the beginning. Tell him what you have found out about your mother...recently...and ask for his help. It is bull that LE let your mother's case set for so many years. I would want an answer and I would want to know what he can do to help you...especially about getting your mom's picture and name out there so that she can be identified by someone and found.

Do you live in Michigan? I wonder if there is a way that you could make contact with places in Michigan who have resources for disabled people. Was your mom on medication? Would she have gone to DSHS for medical help? Are there assisted living places in Michigan that she may be living in? Maybe you could get a phone book for Michigan and start sending a letter and picture to any place that looks like it could be a place for her to get help from.

When you found out about the ticket did you find out what city it was in? If so, I would start with that city and their resources for disabled people. She may be getting help from a Mental Health facility....help with housing....meds, etc. Anything is worth trying. Her disability may make it easier to find her if she is getting some help somewhere. She is older now and my guess is that she would be getting some help. I can't think of anything else right now but I would start with the city the ticket was from and send out as many letters/with a picture as possible.

Take care Debbie. Have you tried the TV stations in Michigan...if that is where she got her ticket? I would contact them and beg them to show your mom's picture.
 
HI Cashew,
Cashew thank you so much you have always been so sweet to me and I miss talking to you and I will be back on later I just wanted to tell you thanks for wishing me happy b-day and it went ok as good as it get's I guess but you made my day today and for that thank you it is people like you that make it easier on me to keep on going with little result but I think I am making some headway with childseek and realcrimes,I just feel like there is something more I can do???
I will talk to you later and you take care of yourself and be as sweet as only you can be.;)
 
HI Bobbisangel,
I think you are right about that cause I got the same impression when I read it.
And yes we live in southeast michigan and she got pulled over in the city walker mi,and I have talked to alot of people in the mental health field and if she is in there it actually is gonna be hard as heck cause we have that hippa law and they won't tell me nothing and they don't have to.
But I did call and fax over information to all the one's in the southeast area and believe me that was ton's of places and they haven't gotten back to me, see I am doing this on my own and my own health issue's I am really pushing and I spend at least 8-10 hours per day on the computer and I did go up the chain of command and they sent me right back to the bottom and told me I would have to get river rouge police to help me.the attorney general is Mike Cox for Michigan and I think I am gonna call him today cause he is in lansing michigan and that is to far to go for nothing so I am gonna call his office and see if I can get a appointment with him but lately I don't know what state you are in but he has alot going on and is on t.v daily over a big mess.
But thanks for the advice and I will talk to you later.:banghead:
 
Hi Debbie! I just wanted to let you know I sent you a private message, so you would know to check!
 
HI Everyone,
I need your help in signing a petition for my mom for them to start a investagation on why the local police never opened her case or why the case got lost,whatever happened my mom is still out there and I need your help so will you please take a moment and sign a petition to have her case investagated..

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/takeaction/875659879

Thank you and God Bless all of you.

Happy Thanksgiving:)
 
Hi Debbie! I hope you find the answers you are looking for soon! You are a very strong woman, I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
 
Hi Debbie,

I hope that this petition gets LE on the ball and that it helps find your mom.
You deserve some answers too. There is no excuse for LE not doing anything all of this time. Keep us posted. Barbara
 
Debbie,

I hope you find your mother soon. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
The petition has been signed! Take Care, Jennifer
 
I signed the petition, and will keep you in my prayers for your efforts to find your mother,
 
SadieMae said:
I signed the petition, and will keep you in my prayers for your efforts to find your mother,
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HI Sadiemae,
thank you and please keep us in your prayers and I will also keep you in mine,
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family and may you stay safe.
 
HI inquiringmindz,

Thanks for signing and for the website and for the prayers I believe they are working matter of fact I know they are so thanks to all of you who have prayed for my family and God Bless you and keep you safe.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.:chicken:
inquiringmindz said:
Debbie,

I hope you find your mother soon. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
The petition has been signed! Take Care, Jennifer
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HI Everyone,
I just wanted to let you know I am heading for tennesse cause my uncle passed away this morning at 6am,he was my mom's favorite brother and this would crush her heart it's surely doing a number on mine,I swear I don't know how much more this family can take.
keep us in your prayer's and Happy thanksgiving to you all.

God Bless all of you.
 
Debbie,

I am so sorry about the loss of your uncle. I can sympathize with you. I was very close to my moms brothers.

Prayers for you.
Love Yaya
 
HI Marine Mom and YaYa,

Thank you so much for the kind words and it's becoming to much pain to bear,but I know I have some good friends to keep me going and I have to be strong for his kids and wife they really need your prayer and I could use a little myself this round. him and my mom were like twins I swear and he was just here a couple of months ago,but he was in and out of the hospital so much and he was only using 20 percent of his heart and know he is in heaven now and happy,this is a big loss to all that knew and loved this great man Bob Hoffman.
 
Debbie,
I am so very sorry for your loss. When I saw the title of this thread, I thought that one of my relatives might be posting on this board w/o my knowledge. However, the location is different. We just buried my favorite uncle (Mother's brother) on Saturday. He went into the hospital in the hospital on 9/9 to have a polyp removed from his colon. He contracted an infection in the hospital and died last week. He never came home from the hospital after having a procedure that was to have him home in two days. He was my Mother's baby brother and a hard pill to swallow. I understand what you are going through. May God be with you as you grieve.
 
HI Jannuncutt,

I am so sorry for your loss as well,yeah he was in the hospital to when it happened and they gave him a twilight and his heart stopped and we all thought he was just hanging on in hopes of seeing my mom again and I couldn't even give him that but I am making a promise to be more decicated then I am now to find her and let her know how much he missed her. take care and God Bless you and your family and I knwo you know what I am feeling right now,I guess I am numb but at leasst I had a big cry and hen something calming came over me and I know it was him.
now I need to focus on his kids and wife thay are really the one's hurting real bad and I ned to be strong for them even though it is hard I can break down when I get home if need be and i am sure I will.
 
Debbie,
You have a hell of a lot on your plate. God Bless you and I will keep you in my prayers.
 
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