No, the lie was that she actually WAS going to meet him that night. She had no intention of sleeping on it.
It's not a fluke that Dec 18 data was gone. It was done purposefully. You can do research on the Interwebs to find out the inner workings of the SYNC module. It is possible since it was done.
You might be an average vehicle owner but I bet you don't work on your vehicles or read the manuals about the tech. Sid likely would have since he purchased this vehicle. And Sid had reason to want to know this since he was out and about and did not want his activities of Dec 18th known.
Do you get into the inner workings of your computer? Most 'average' users don't. But computer enthusiasts do and there is PLENTY of info available online how to do various things. I utilize some of those resources for my computer. Well, the SYNC capability on a Ford vehicle is just another little computer of sorts. It has hardware, it runs software. The module itself can be removed and replaced. One could physically remove that piece of hardware (like for a day) and then put it back on. HOW this is done I don't know, but I know it can be easily done. Everything is "plug 'n play."
So, Heather wasn't exactly honest with Bri about her intentions. What else was she not honest about during that conversation.
I wonder if the black outfit that Bri said is missing is the same outfit she wore on the date.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
What do you think? Any ideas?
I'm not convinced SM told Heather he was leaving his wife and wanted to be with her. There are reasons why she may have made that up.
The following are my opinions on this case (unpopular or not):
As others have already said, I think this case is much less convoluted than it may seem. I don’t think HE was pregnant, I think that was a theory presented by the prosecution which they felt would be more likely to result in a guilty verdict for the M’s. I do think SM and TM are both equally culpable in this case. Read on…lease: :moo:
Is it possible that SM did want to leave TM? IMO, SM and TM’s relationship was unequal, abusive, and irrational. I think a lot of arguing had been going on in the M household and things finally came to a head. Maybe SM finally got brave and decided to leave TM that night, but TM responded with the “I think I might be pregnant/missed my period” card in an attempt to keep him. SM probably agreed to get a pregnancy test for TM that late at night, not only to squash that claim, but also so he’d be able to leave to house and have a chance to call HE. SM probably feared being followed and the imminent justice of TM if he didn’t go get the pregnancy test right away. I don’t think the cigar was celebratory but more for stress relief? We have no knowledge as to whether or not he smoked regularly but I know many men who smoke cigars the way people smoke cigarettes.
I think HE and SM did care about each other and, in the months leading up to HE’s disappearance, began communicating again in a manner they felt TM wouldn’t be able to track ever since the affair had “blown up” and become not-so-inconspicuous. Maybe a valid reason for the pay phone calls that night? They may have used Snapchat as well. SM probably did not want to use his phone as much since he knew it was being tracked by TM, or maybe TM took it from him completely.
According to BW, HE had stated that she was going to “sleep on it” with regard to seeing SM that night. However, I think SM made this seem like a desperate situation to HE and asked for her help in leaving TM. Maybe they met at LB’s earlier in the night and then HE agreed to wait for SM at PTL so he could get some things from his house. Shortly after, I think TM caught up to HE or HE and SM somehow and SM ended up siding with his wife. It seems like HE felt SM was a “pushover” with his wife, maybe HE tried to stand up to TM for SM?
I don’t think BW was fully aware of all of the happenings in SM and HE’s relationship because HE was probably ashamed since she knew BW and many others didn’t approve. I also feel that SM cared about HE on a spectrum. He cared for HE enough to leave TM to be with her, but not enough to fess up to participating in her disappearance after the fact. Maybe TM even threatened SM with his children, framing him, and who knows what else? These types of abusive and controlling relationships can be unbelievable.
All IMO, I don’t know how all of this fits with the timeline but at some point when I have more time, I’ll type something up. Again, let me say I do NOT feel that SM is innocent or less responsible in this.
Thanks for any input; I have really enjoyed reading everyone’s theories and opinions on this case over the years. Keep on sleuthing. :loveyou:
The following are my opinions on this case (unpopular or not):
As others have already said, I think this case is much less convoluted than it may seem. I don’t think HE was pregnant, I think that was a theory presented by the prosecution which they felt would be more likely to result in a guilty verdict for the M’s. I do think SM and TM are both equally culpable in this case. Read on…lease: :moo:
Is it possible that SM did want to leave TM? IMO, SM and TM’s relationship was unequal, abusive, and irrational. I think a lot of arguing had been going on in the M household and things finally came to a head. Maybe SM finally got brave and decided to leave TM that night, but TM responded with the “I think I might be pregnant/missed my period” card in an attempt to keep him. SM probably agreed to get a pregnancy test for TM that late at night, not only to squash that claim, but also so he’d be able to leave to house and have a chance to call HE. SM probably feared being followed and the imminent justice of TM if he didn’t go get the pregnancy test right away. I don’t think the cigar was celebratory but more for stress relief? We have no knowledge as to whether or not he smoked regularly but I know many men who smoke cigars the way people smoke cigarettes.
I think HE and SM did care about each other and, in the months leading up to HE’s disappearance, began communicating again in a manner they felt TM wouldn’t be able to track ever since the affair had “blown up” and become not-so-inconspicuous. Maybe a valid reason for the pay phone calls that night? They may have used Snapchat as well. SM probably did not want to use his phone as much since he knew it was being tracked by TM, or maybe TM took it from him completely.
According to BW, HE had stated that she was going to “sleep on it” with regard to seeing SM that night. However, I think SM made this seem like a desperate situation to HE and asked for her help in leaving TM. Maybe they met at LB’s earlier in the night and then HE agreed to wait for SM at PTL so he could get some things from his house. Shortly after, I think TM caught up to HE or HE and SM somehow and SM ended up siding with his wife. It seems like HE felt SM was a “pushover” with his wife, maybe HE tried to stand up to TM for SM?
I don’t think BW was fully aware of all of the happenings in SM and HE’s relationship because HE was probably ashamed since she knew BW and many others didn’t approve. I also feel that SM cared about HE on a spectrum. He cared for HE enough to leave TM to be with her, but not enough to fess up to participating in her disappearance after the fact. Maybe TM even threatened SM with his children, framing him, and who knows what else? These types of abusive and controlling relationships can be unbelievable.
All IMO, I don’t know how all of this fits with the timeline but at some point when I have more time, I’ll type something up. Again, let me say I do NOT feel that SM is innocent or less responsible in this.
Thanks for any input; I have really enjoyed reading everyone’s theories and opinions on this case over the years. Keep on sleuthing. :loveyou:
These are great points. Maybe he did intend to leave that night, went home to retrieve some things and TM did threaten him or the kids. This could be why she turned the phone on to check and see if SM and Heather had been talking.
If I'm trying to call your powered-off cell phone, will it show up on either of our records?
If I'm trying to call your powered-off cell phone, will it show up on either of our records?
The following are my opinions on this case (unpopular or not):
As others have already said, I think this case is much less convoluted than it may seem. I don’t think HE was pregnant, I think that was a theory presented by the prosecution which they felt would be more likely to result in a guilty verdict for the M’s. I do think SM and TM are both equally culpable in this case. Read on…lease: :moo:
Is it possible that SM did want to leave TM? IMO, SM and TM’s relationship was unequal, abusive, and irrational. I think a lot of arguing had been going on in the M household and things finally came to a head. Maybe SM finally got brave and decided to leave TM that night, but TM responded with the “I think I might be pregnant/missed my period” card in an attempt to keep him. SM probably agreed to get a pregnancy test for TM that late at night, not only to squash that claim, but also so he’d be able to leave to house and have a chance to call HE. SM probably feared being followed and the imminent justice of TM if he didn’t go get the pregnancy test right away. I don’t think the cigar was celebratory but more for stress relief? We have no knowledge as to whether or not he smoked regularly but I know many men who smoke cigars the way people smoke cigarettes.
I think HE and SM did care about each other and, in the months leading up to HE’s disappearance, began communicating again in a manner they felt TM wouldn’t be able to track ever since the affair had “blown up” and become not-so-inconspicuous. Maybe a valid reason for the pay phone calls that night? They may have used Snapchat as well. SM probably did not want to use his phone as much since he knew it was being tracked by TM, or maybe TM took it from him completely.
According to BW, HE had stated that she was going to “sleep on it” with regard to seeing SM that night. However, I think SM made this seem like a desperate situation to HE and asked for her help in leaving TM. Maybe they met at LB’s earlier in the night and then HE agreed to wait for SM at PTL so he could get some things from his house. Shortly after, I think TM caught up to HE or HE and SM somehow and SM ended up siding with his wife. It seems like HE felt SM was a “pushover” with his wife, maybe HE tried to stand up to TM for SM?
I don’t think BW was fully aware of all of the happenings in SM and HE’s relationship because HE was probably ashamed since she knew BW and many others didn’t approve. I also feel that SM cared about HE on a spectrum. He cared for HE enough to leave TM to be with her, but not enough to fess up to participating in her disappearance after the fact. Maybe TM even threatened SM with his children, framing him, and who knows what else? These types of abusive and controlling relationships can be unbelievable.
All IMO, I don’t know how all of this fits with the timeline but at some point when I have more time, I’ll type something up. Again, let me say I do NOT feel that SM is innocent or less responsible in this.
Thanks for any input; I have really enjoyed reading everyone’s theories and opinions on this case over the years. Keep on sleuthing. :loveyou:
Just showing what type of "cigar" was being purchased. It's in the details (as it should be in a case such as this IMO)!
If I was an "expecting father", I certainly wouldn't purchase a "real" cigar from Wal-Mart.
SLED Agent said that SM purchased a "cigar-like cigarette". Whatever that is.
A pregnancy test - $0.88
LTL Cigar - $3.63
SUBTOTAL: $4.51
TAX: $0.41
TOTAL: $4.92
Most Google searches for LTL points to Swisher brand and a few other brands with a quick search. (aka little cigars).
13:41 - https://youtu.be/HqMQmSul1j4?list=PLR2JAGZzf3U29fLzrfr5Wi6WCGE48Nqel
Also, not saying the "cigar" purchase was not a cigar, but screen-cap really looks like a pack of Marlboro Reds or newer 72's to me. :thinking:
![]()
Madeleine, there are other circumstances and testimony in this case that need to be considered. For me, it is not as simple as you make it out to be. Did you watch the trial?
I wonder if the black outfit that Bri said is missing is the same outfit she wore on the date.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Swisher Sweets!
![]()
That def implies they were purchased for marijuana use. IMO