concentric
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I so hear what you're saying. I'm glad you received help. We have a serious problem in this country where we feel we have to be supermoms and heading back to work and regular duties as soon as the baby is born. But that's a whole 'nother tangent I shouldn't touch right now.
The only thing that bothers me with this being used as a possible defense for KC is this: are there any records of her being treated for PPD at any time following Caylee's birth? Andrea Yates had a long history of postpartum disorder. The defense can't just say "Oh it was PPD/PPP" without some kind of medical records to back it up. It just won't work. Or will it?
Depression is pervasive. While we all don't suffer in the same way, some symptoms/signs seem to affect most people in similar ways:
1. Not caring about personal hygiene/appearance - KC always looked bathed and even had her makeup done. Not typical.
2. Social avoidance - KC continued to have a very active social life.
3. Loss of appetite - those burrito pics look to me like she enjoyed her food very much.
I've only touched the surface of depression symptoms. There are many more that I won't get into now. This post is long enough as it is.
The beware I also placed in bold as it's one of the things about postpartum illness that upsets me to no end. No mother should ever be afraid to get the help she needs to get well. It's one of the reasons we are so afraid to tell anyone what's happening. We don't want to be branded a "bad mom" and have our kids taken away from us. In fact, it takes quite the brave mother to go to her Dr. or family and share what's going in. This is what we should be encouraging.
Thank you, and bless your heart. It's another one of those "unless you go through it yourself..." I am eager, as you are, I suspect, of what this defense team is going to propose. The three points you list above pretty much covers PPD, along with the "proof" that KC wasn't PPD, PPP. Like many sleuths here have said, the defense can try it, but it won't float.