Bobbisangel
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Amanda and baby Hayden are on my mind this morning.
Bobbisangel, I agree with everything you have posted! It angers me when everyone with any sense can tell who 'disappeared' Amanda, yet the guilty person keeps on living like nothing happened. Brian Westfall still gets to spend time with his family.... see his friends... laugh at jokes... breath the air. All of the things he took away from Amanda.
Hopefully something will break with Amanda's case soon. Amanda and Hayden have waited too long as it is.
I think of Amanda's family sitting there all of this time knowing who murdered their daughter and grandbaby and they can't do anything about it. That has to be pure hell! I don't know what I would do in their position but I know what I would like to do if it was my daughter and grandbaby. I think it would just drive me crazy knowing that he will probably never pay for what he did. That he has shown no remorse. It is like Amanda got in his way and he eliminated her like you would a bug.
She may never be found because, as you said, there is so much area in which to hide a body. I think between him and his parents they own a lot of property. He probably knows a lot of good hiding places.
What really ticks me off is that she wasn't asking anything of him. If he insisted then a blood test could have been done after Hayden was born to prove or disprove the baby's paternity. He must have known that he was the father or he wouldn't have taken the route that he did even though he was denying the baby was his. Why murder the mother if it isn't your baby????
It all had to have come down to child support and him not wanting to pay it. Guess he should have thought of that before they had sex that one time! He had as much to do with the conception of that baby as she did unless things have changed in a big way since I had my kids...lol.
Amanda just seemed like such a nice person who worked hard to support her little girl and the coming baby. It sounded like she made a good income and probably didn't even want support from him. She wasn't calling him all of the time or bugging him about money. It seemed like all at once he just came out of no where and wanted to meet with her. It's to bad he couldn't have left well enough alone. I really despise this guy and I really feel for Amanda's parents and sister.