I've wondered about other kids in the neighbor she could have visited for play, but "driving" on Google maps down her street, I didn't see any signs of any children at all. What I'm worried about are teens who may have a reckless sense of driving. Is it possible she peddled up someone's drive or on the street, and someone was backing out and struck her....covering up an accident of some kind?
Why would someone let their 3 and 5 yr old ride a bike in the street/road? Can't grasp that. It's not even safe for them to be in the front yard anymore unless they are being watched. Sad,,but we see the consequences all the time ...much too much.
for what its worth, in one of the articles I was reading, a neighbor of Breann's said that normally the street was full of neighborhood kids playing and bikes, and she said how fun it was to look out and see and hear them all playing. Then she goes in to talk about how since Breann disappeared, everyone is scared and indoors.
So, it sounds like there are other children around, and it was normal for them all to play outside and in the street together, etc.
It's hard to keep in mind, reading here on WS, but stranger abductions are the exception. Most disappearances involve family members or acquaintances. It should be normal practice for small children to play outside without a parent hovering over them every minute. I didn't live in the best city growing up - but I so treasure the memories of wandering my street (and as I got older, my neighborhood) with small friends, hopping in puddles, walking fences, playing kickball in the street, all while mom kept an eye from a window, or my older brother and the older kids kept an eye on us younger ones.
I let my younger two (6 and 4) play in the yard while I watch from the window. If they ride bikes in the road I will sometimes go out and work in the garden, but I don't hover next to them. Sometimes I send one of my older kids (13 and 14) out to rolleerblade while the littler ones bike. Sometimes the youngest takes off up the sidewalk, but the 6 yr old always raises a ruckus and goes and drags him back (this is actually funnier than it comes across in text
). I have drilled the rules into their heads, and for the most part, they do follow them.
I know some of what I do will be deemed too risky by many, but it's important to me not to succumb to fear of the unlikely - which is what stranger abduction is. I guess my point is, in my long winded way, that children playing outside in a neighborhood without hovering parents should be the norm. And most times, they are perfectly safe to do so. When the worst happens, it's not the parents fault. We don't know how often they looked out or came out to check, or if there were neighbor adults watching too. It doesn't help Breeann to pass judgement on her parents for letting her bike on their dead end street.
I'm so worried about this little one. It is always scary when a child goes missing, but infinitely worse when, like it seems here, a true stranger abduction happens. The normal and everyday things suddenly become sinister and unsafe. As the neighbor described, everyone, all the kids, are now hiding inside. Now everyone has to live in fear. So sad for Breeann, her brother, and all the little kids.