That is great that you have the empathy, patience, and energy to provide assistance and support.
I'm sure you have positively impacted many people's live and serve as a role model to many.
I just want to add that it is possible to come from an alcoholic environment that is mixed with sexual abuse and become highly successful in academia and in a career as well. But one thing is for certain, one can never lean on the excuse that they shouldn't achieve because the odds are stacked against them. If you believe you should never expect much -- that's when you're giving in. If you believe groups of people hate you and are holding you down, then you will buy it and be held down. Anger only destroys from within and built-in excuses for failure only flame that anger.
Coming from a point of dysfunction makes some of life more difficult.
But overcoming it can and does happen.
Kudos once again, human....for all you do through your strength to help society. My blessings for sure.
Yes, people are their own worst enemies. We are often hostages of our own minds.
People can overcome. It happens. But with so many odds against them, it is almost impossible even with help. Where I live, public transportation stops around 11 PM. The jobs people can get starting out often are overnight shifts at the grocery store, nursing home, hospital, cleaning and so on. Where does your child go overnight? And how do you get your child there and how do you get to work?
Many women had gone to those for profit schools which prepared them for a minimum wage job and gave them huge loans for the huge tuition they charge.
So now they had to try to pay those loans back on low wage jobs . They cannot go to school for additional training until they pay those loans back, which will be in 20-30'years.
Another sweet thing that happens is that they want love. So they fall for some loser's BS love story. He is a lying loser so he ends up doing something that gets the woman kicked out of govt housing. Once you are kicked out, you are kicked out for ten years.
Now the woman needs housing, but landlords don't want her. They do background checks here.
She now has to rent from a slum lord who charges huge money because he knows that these people have no options and will default soon. She cannot afford the rent so she has to start selling her body or drugs to survive.
Many women do not have families to fall back on for help. The families have their own crises.
Then there is the mental illness caused by who knows what. Is it the abuse they were raised with? Is it genetic?
Everyone has to choose what they will do, but the choice is a lot easier if you have a loving home, money, food, health, and hope.
How many people are there that came from huge wealth and squandered their lives?
The grandson of the founder of Bakelite , the first plastic, was gay. His mother did not like that so she had sex with him to try to get him to go straight. He eventually murdered her. The family of Pabst brewing. More tragedy. All opportunities, but mess up your life big time!