I don't get it either, lymom3. I don't think any "normal" people do. I wouldn't hurt my dog to get back at an ex. Let alone my children. Unfathomable.lymom3 said:As jaded and cynical as I think I am I guess that I still can't wrap my mind around the idea that people can do that. It's bad enough that people can do the things that they do to strangers but doing that to your own flesh and blood just is something that is more than I can even fathom....
As twisted as the guy is, I think he probably has told the truth - although it's been drowned out in the sea of lies he's also told. He's said they're safe. He's said he killed them. He's said he sold them. He's said he has no idea where they are.
I'd like to believe the children are safe somewhere, but I just don't think that's plausible. Why would you throw away all of their clothes? Who could be hiding them for all this time? And if he did hide them away with somebody because he was convinced they'd been harmed while in the mother's care, why wouldn't he just tell the judge that during sentencing?
And now he wants his ex dead. Why have her killed? He can't continue to torment her if she's dead. All these things make me think he killed those children the same day he took them.
I pray I'm wrong.