GUILTY MO - Tyler Dasher, 1, Affton, 15 Nov 2011 - #1

[krimekat]

Poor baby boy - God bless & keep you...

What I don't understand is how could LE have said no visible cause of death, yet now saying he was beaten?

If thy found him face down then did LE make that statement before turning him over?

Oh for the love of pete - what is hello is wrong with some people....

LE has said little about cause of death & nothing about him being beaten . . .

 

[LolaMoon08]

Poor baby boy - God bless & keep you...

What I don't understand is how could LE have said no visible cause of death, yet now saying he was beaten?

If thy found him face down then did LE make that statement before turning him over?

Oh for the love of pete - what is hello is wrong with some people....

How cold was it that night? Maybe his little body was just so cold and pale (or blue) that it was hard to see any outside signs of trauma?

 

[laniefi]

LE has said little about cause of death & nothing about him being beaten . . .

Thanks KK - was it the MSM saying "beaten"?

TIA

 

[belimom]

I just got back from the Thanksgiving Feast. All the little ones had on their construction paper pilgrim hats and Native American headdresses. So cute...

I kept thinking of little Tyler and how he'll never wear one of those little hats, etc. Then I looked around at all of the other parents laughing, and wondering why we keep following these cases? It's so heartbreaking - I would love to live day to day like a lot people, oblivious to all of this madness.

Bless you, Tyler.

 

[MEM2010]

NO!! NO!! NO!!

Not another precious child dying at the hands of the one person in the world who is supposed to protect them.


Not another baby having to look in the eyes of their mother as she kills him.

Not another senseless tragedy and loss of life.

 

[laurafairlie]

I still can't get over the fact that people do these kinds of things to their kids. It makes me ill. Poor sweet boy.

 

[nursebeeme]

OMG... Multiple sources confirming that Dasher has confessed to the beating death of her son. During interviews with her which stretched into the early morning hours this morning sources say that she had dumped Tyler's body, then returned home and went to sleep. She then called police several hours later to report him missing.

Marc Cox from KMOV live report on 12 news.

She needs to ROT! Poor baby Tyler.

bumping up
(not confirmed yet by LE)

 

[winterrose]

My post did not ask anyone for compassion for this girl killing her baby..all I was trying to say is she is young being 20 yrs old and SOME 20 yrs old are not mature nor resp enough to have child!And I did say this was MOO!!!!

I honestly feel no matter what age you are,if your character is that evil,you'll carry it through.I don't believe all of a sudden a person does something like this,maybe she hid her trueself well or things were overlooked.If these young women think they're going to get their 5 minutes in the news and be like KC,they're very mistaken.KC will always have to look over her shoulder,no matter where she goes people will look at her by what they feel she did.

If they want to kopycat her,than the idea of what they think they see in her will be a far cry from the reality of KC's life.She is the most hated woman in the world,and when these women are sitting in jail,mental institution or even if they get off,they'll see the reality of what KC's life is really like.When all the supporters surrounding KC go away and they will,her reality will set in also.When all those poor girls,family and friends can get over the shock of what she did,Shelby will realize she took not only Tyler's life away,but her own. She's getting her five minutes now,but she'll pay for them,forever.

 

[Coldpizza]

I don't think the report of a man carrying a baby has anything to do with this case....

Isn't it possible she drove there? It doesn't jive with me "if" she beat him to death because he woke her up. Why would she walk that far(especially if she wanted sleep) unless she didn't have a car? There was a red car in the drive yesterday, does she have a car I wonder?

 

[laniefi]

I just got back from the Thanksgiving Feast. All the little ones had on their construction paper pilgrim hats and Native American headdresses. So cute...

I kept thinking of little Tyler and how he'll never wear one of those little hats, etc. Then I looked around at all of the other parents laughing, and wondering why we keep following these cases? It's so heartbreaking - I would love to live day to day like a lot people, oblivious to all of this madness.

Bless you, Tyler.

I read these cases and look at my beautiful 13 month old daughter at night when I get home from work....

I tell you I hug her and hold her tight - I never want to let go.

I just can NOT comprehend bringing a life into this world and then feeling like you have the right to take it away....

 

[mikeysmommom]

My post did not ask anyone for compassion for this girl killing her baby..all I was trying to say is she was young being 20 yrs old and SOME 20 yrs old are not mature nor resp enough to have child!And I did say this was MOO!!!!

She should have thought about that before she got pregnant!Sorry but with birth control and even abortion if she did not want a child.After he was born if she realized she child not want him what about adoption?No she decided to murder him WTH!:furious::furious::furious::furious::furious::furious:

 

[neese]

I think she described what he was wearing when she put him to bed.....and, said his blanket was missing....she told LE this then, oooops! PJ's and blanket found in the house. Soooooo.....the duplicate excuse took flight. Raised 3 sons and have a grandson....never had duplicate PJ's. :crazy:

I think we need a pajama thread :waitasec:

 

[Stella5]

Totally just my opinion on what went down... remember the picture of the patio table yesterday? We were guessing what the items were... I guessed a lighter, a pack of Marlboro lights & a hookah... my son just said I was right, except the hookah looked more like a bong to him (he's not a smoker, a ex-friend was). I know as an adult I've had people on my deck leave cigarettes & lighters out there after a late night of drinking, chatting, smoking, etc... so perhaps there was a little late night party out there Monday night. SD gets high/drunk whatever... and then goes to bed. Grandma gets up in the morning to get ready to leave for work. The noise of her getting ready or leaving wakes Tyler, who starts crying in his crib because it's morning - time to get up and he's probably wet/dirty and hungry because it's time for breakfast! Grandma leaves for work and that leaves only SD in the house to care for Tyler and SD gets out of bed in a fit of fury because she's hungover and just wanted to sleep it off, but she can't because she has a baby to take care of. This is when she snaps and does whatever she did to Tyler... shook him, beat him, killed him. She then decides to stage the abduction and dumps him in the bush at the cemetery and goes back to bed hoping he's found - he wasn't hidden very well, only 50 feet from the street.

I don't believe grandma was there when he was killed, she was already off to work. I think Grandma's stories are probably what helped LE wrap this up. They already told us she was gone from the house to work.

This is just MOO... nothing has been reported as to what actually happened yet. But how many times have we heard of people getting angry at a baby and shaking them to death, slamming them against walls/floors, etc.. to get them to stop crying. It's sickening!!!

 

[tink92]

I still can't get over the fact that people do these kinds of things to their kids. It makes me ill. Poor sweet boy.

I know...its impossible to fathom!

i don't know if anyone here watches DEXTER on showtime?...He is a serial killing sociopath...yet even he adores his little toddler boy Harrison. (I know its not real LOL)

 

[gitana1]

OMG... Multiple sources confirming that Dasher has confessed to the beating death of her son. During interviews with her which stretched into the early morning hours this morning sources say that she had dumped Tyler's body, then returned home and went to sleep. She then called police several hours later to report him missing.

Marc Cox from KMOV live report on 12 news.

She needs to ROT! Poor baby Tyler.

Makes sense if she killed him in a rage. Very sick. I wonder how her poor friends feel right now. How can a person dote on their little child and then beat them to death?

And ya' know, I hear about how some people can't handle parenthood because they are too young but when I was a kid I never had the urge to beat to death any of the babies I babysat or my beloved doggies, etc. Kids don't routinely erupt in rages that result in serious bodily injury to their little siblings or playmates or pets, so why do these young mothers?

I cannot imagine watching that little guy come from my own body, caring for him, feeding and bathing him, hearing him laugh, watching him teeteh and grow and blow kisses and then beat him to death in rage? And then dump him unceremoniously like an old discarded newspaper? And then go back to sleep?

Do we have any more info yet? Also, the only videos I have seen of her do not show her face at all as she leads LE around. Does anyone have better videos?

 

[Bravo]

Makes me crazy when I hear in cases Mom is young yadayada. (Not directing my comment at any posters). Seems they are never to young to make a baby:banghead:

 

[annalyzer]

i wonder where grandma was when tyler was killed?

 

[Coldpizza]

:rose::heartbeat: RIP Tyler :heartbeat::rose:

It's just so wrong,,,,

that picture of innocence just made me burst out in tears

 

[MsFacetious]

Well, if she went back to sleep after she killed him then at least she can't claim sleep deprivation to get her confession thrown out...

Assuming she confessed and went back to sleep after she did it.

 

[LolaMoon08]

I just got back from the Thanksgiving Feast. All the little ones had on their construction paper pilgrim hats and Native American headdresses. So cute...

I kept thinking of little Tyler and how he'll never wear one of those little hats, etc. Then I looked around at all of the other parents laughing, and wondering why we keep following these cases? It's so heartbreaking - I would love to live day to day like a lot people, oblivious to all of this madness.

Bless you, Tyler.

I think some people choose to be oblivious for their own personal reasons. They don't want to believe that such evil exists. I was once fooled. By Susan Smith. I believed her pleas. I believed her cries. I was also very young. After it came out that she killed her precious boys the way she did... I refused to ever be fooled again.

A lot of people don't want to judge, but there is nothing wrong with using sound judgement. I know that I made some people upset last night because I was questioning the mother... but I have followed these cases long enough to be able to see the signs of where this was headed. This was a very typical case... one we have all seen before. It came as no shock to me that mom was arrested. I was more shocked that she didn't lawyer up and stop talking before LE could get a confession out of her.