TheDuchess
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I really like Gil and feel for him. When his son was kidnapped, he looked like the guilty party and I am sure that LE and the press had a field day with the problems in his marriage. The mother failed her LDT. There was no forced entry. The baby was in the room with them. But LE couldn't see past them being guilty and never pursued the most probably suspect of them all-his ex-girlfriend who wanted revenge for him going back to his wife and baby.
There is something more going on here, I can just feel it. Are these people perfect? Far from it. Is DB mother of the year? Hardly. But is she capable of doing the unspeakable to her child? It does not appear so from her history, particularly her history with her older son. That baby was obviously cherished and well cared for. She was named after DB's late mother out of respect. As much as it may look bad at times, I just don't see a loving mother discard their child as trash after an accident. I just don't see it. And I don't see her as diabolical.
I honestly do think that these people are at the end of their rope. It scared me when Gil told Nancy he feared they were going to commit suicide. I remember what happened to the one girl everyone thought killed her son that disappeared and then killed herself after going on NG. Gave me goose bumps.
Try looking at these people as innocent first. Deer in the headlights. Clueless. Desperate. Issues paying bills. Raising 3 kids. Now their baby is missing. Mom was drinking that night. Well, OK. Not a good idea and certainly not good if your daughter is missing.
HOWEVER...I don't care if she was drunk as a skunk, people still kidnap children and it still doesn't make it any less of a crime and it still doesn't tell us where Lisa is.
Gil is seeing these people through the eyes of someone who has been falsely accused of the worst possible thing while going through the horror and pain of losing his precious child. Maybe he's wrong. But he seems to have some insight into just why this is turning into such a circus and it could just very well be the fact that these to unsophisticated people have been surrounded by vultures and are really just spinning trying to figure out which way to go.
They tried cooperating with LE and were accused of killing their child
They tried doing national interviews and were picked apart and humiliated for being honest
They tried letting people who know about these things help them out, but found themselves only victimized even more
Could it be possible that these people are innocent and simply do not know which way to turn?
There is something more going on here, I can just feel it. Are these people perfect? Far from it. Is DB mother of the year? Hardly. But is she capable of doing the unspeakable to her child? It does not appear so from her history, particularly her history with her older son. That baby was obviously cherished and well cared for. She was named after DB's late mother out of respect. As much as it may look bad at times, I just don't see a loving mother discard their child as trash after an accident. I just don't see it. And I don't see her as diabolical.
I honestly do think that these people are at the end of their rope. It scared me when Gil told Nancy he feared they were going to commit suicide. I remember what happened to the one girl everyone thought killed her son that disappeared and then killed herself after going on NG. Gave me goose bumps.
Try looking at these people as innocent first. Deer in the headlights. Clueless. Desperate. Issues paying bills. Raising 3 kids. Now their baby is missing. Mom was drinking that night. Well, OK. Not a good idea and certainly not good if your daughter is missing.
HOWEVER...I don't care if she was drunk as a skunk, people still kidnap children and it still doesn't make it any less of a crime and it still doesn't tell us where Lisa is.
Gil is seeing these people through the eyes of someone who has been falsely accused of the worst possible thing while going through the horror and pain of losing his precious child. Maybe he's wrong. But he seems to have some insight into just why this is turning into such a circus and it could just very well be the fact that these to unsophisticated people have been surrounded by vultures and are really just spinning trying to figure out which way to go.
They tried cooperating with LE and were accused of killing their child
They tried doing national interviews and were picked apart and humiliated for being honest
They tried letting people who know about these things help them out, but found themselves only victimized even more
Could it be possible that these people are innocent and simply do not know which way to turn?