I grew up in an environent like that, but hugging that child, knowing I'd never hug Caylee again, would destroy me.
I also suggested, perhaps she's already DONE her grieving, which is where I lean, but no matter to me, since she's not helping FIND Caylee.
Normal people don't stop grieving that quickly. My father died 6 years ago, and I'm still grieving. Not the can't function, crying every day type. But when I think of him it hurts.