How did Cole appear, if it was him? I want to hope it was
Tabirey, can you let us know exactly where you believe you may have seen Cole in Coates NC? This would help us make sure the map is accurate. Also, do you remember the date that you think you saw him? Any details that stick out in your mind would be appreciated! TIA!
Figured I'd answer both of these at once and forgive me, but for clarity this may be a long post. :
To give you an idea of our line of travel, you can take NC 55 from Linden (where I picked my daughter up at ) through Erwin into Coats (55 is also known as McKinley St.). When you come into Coats city limit (I'll try to get pics tomorrow ), there is a produce /ice cream stand on the right. About a half block down there's a little cafe and a Sunoco on the left and on the right is a tire shop /self car wash. On the next corner on the right, after the tire shop is a small car sales lot. There are sidewalks on both sides.
That was about where we noticed the young man walking on Dec 1st. He was on the sidewalk on the right hand side walking towards us. Not really unusual to see at about 7pm. He was just walking normal, not rushed, with the hood of his jacket up and his hands in his pockets. What made my daughter and I both notice him was that as we were passing by him, he looked up and seemed to really look hard at who was in the car. Like he was making sure we weren't a threat or someone he knew. It was unusual enough that both my daughter and I looked at each other and said "did you see that? "
Unfortunately, I didn't even connect the dots until about a week later and immediately contacted Cole's Aunt and BPD.
What made me connect it was the original description of what Cole was supposedly wearing that night.
When I called BPD, the officer who answered took a message and had the supervisor on duty call me. I spoke with him when he called and he said he'd give the information to the detective. The detective did call me, but I was unable to answer at that time. I called back when I was able to and he was not in and I left a message. He has not called me back since then.
I really hoped that BPD would have checked to see if any of the businesses had video of him. We have 4 gas stations in town, a grocery store and a dollar genral that all would have still been open at that time.
I've really hoped since then that it was him. Folks around here definitely still have the southern mentality of helping a stranger and if he did make it to Erwin/ dunn area, there are shelters there or not to much of a jump if he caught a ride into Fayetteville. Fayetteville would be an extremely good city to get "lost" in.