Yes I had read that somewhere as well, not sure where, possibly in commentary under news articles. I think she will be claiming emotional abuse rather than physical. This covers a wide variety such as a verbal abuse, him talking down to her, being controlling, personal insults etc. Its easier to claim this than physical. However, for it to carry any weight for her, she will have to have evidence other than just her word for it to run with this defence .i.e texts, emails, witnesses who overheard this alleged abuse, professionals she may have discussed it with in the past etc.
In terms of the adoption, I can understand now why Jason choose not to allow her to adopt them seeing as they would have been given new birth certificates. But I have wondered why he didnt give her some guardianship or custody rights. This would not have erased mags' memory or name from their official documents. I mean he was happy for her to care for them on a daily basis but not to have an official say in their lives. I mean she could not have signed any forms for the school, activities, medical forms etc on their behalf as she was basically nobody to the children legally. So really, even though they had married, she was basically still functioning as an Au-pair where the children were concerned.......This would be a definite source of conflict.