docwho3
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sounds like a fair question to me
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Since those of you who bring up the question of 'alibis' also appear to be the strongest supporters of LE in this case, I can't even imagine why you would question this aspect. Family members are routinely looked at first by most law enforcement agencies, and it seems reasonable that NHSP would certainly have done so. . .
The school bus driver and others also would, as a normal course of L.E. routine, have been looked into and yet many people have posted questions about their actions and whereabouts at given times in the case on this and other forums so why should this "family alibi" aspect of the case be any different?
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. . .If you reread all the of available news articles, there has never been any hint of family involvement...
I have been rereading those articles and continue to do so. However, so far I see a decidely cold relationship between L.E. and Maura's family being depicted by the family statements as quoted in news reports. This, to me, makes it sound almost as if L.E. were treating them as POI or suspects. (Is that a hint such as you spoke of?) You might want to remember that I am one of those that has theorized that Maura left on her own and that it may be possible that no crime occured but the family/supporters have continually cried "foul play". So once you say foul play must have occured I,and anyone looking at this case, have to start looking at everyones alibis and we all know that family alibis are always looked at in these cases. And then there is the recent judges ruling which is quoted in news reports as saying:
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. . .(The state) maintain(s) that release of the records could result in the destruction of evidence, chilling and intimidation of witnesses. . .
http://www.unionleader.com/article....ec-4d23727040df
Evidently the state believes evidence might be destroyed and that witnesses might be chilled or intimidated if the info was released to Fred Murray.
(Is that a hint?) Does this mean I am accusing anyone?-"No." I am merely showing that there is reason to ask questions so there is no need to act as if asking the question is somehow out of line and uncalled for or that the questions would not also be asked in other similar cases.
I would think that these questions would be a welcome thing since it gives family a chance to establish truth and attempt put to rest any doubts so that once all questions have been satisfied people can move on to other aspects of the case.
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. . .As to the runaway theory. When Maura first disappeared, the family with the help of Sharon Rauch went to any media outlet that would talk to them in the hopes that someone would see Maura's picture and say...oh, I gave her a ride to the bus depot....
Maura disappeared on Feb 9th 2004. Seven days later, on Feb 16th 2004, this quote was posted:
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POSTED: 4:34 pm EST February 16, 2004
UPDATED: 5:08 pm EST February 16, 2004
"I think she accepted a ride at the scene of the accident, which would enable her to get closer to public transportation, and she got out by bus," Fred Murray said. . .
http://www.truckingboards.com/truck...read.php?t=7022
And yet on 3 days later on Feb 19th 2004 something had already changed family view. What was it?:
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. . .But he did say, although there were no new developments yesterday, he was not ready just yet to go along with the fears of family members that Maura Murray has been the victim of foul play. . .
http://www.vnews.com/02192004/1598142.htm
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. . .I understand that not all of what has happened over the past two years is in the press. We have gotten tips of sitings, we have had people point fingers at others...all of this information has been passed along to the police....
I hope the problem gets resolved in the best possible way.
Added Note:I just opened another window and looked at the thread before posting this because it took so long to compose this reply, and I saw that Peabody has posted some info. Good. Info is a welcome thing.
Peabody
Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004
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Originally Posted by DocWHO3
I have been rereading those articles and continue to do so. However, so far I see a decidely cold relationship between L.E. and Maura's family being depicted by the family statements as quoted in news reports. This, to me, makes it sound almost as if L.E. were treating them as POI or suspects. (Is that a hint such as you spoke of?) You might want to remember that I am one of those that has theorized that Maura left on her own and that it may be possible that no crime occured but the family/supporters have continually cried "foul play". So once you say foul play must have occured I,and anyone looking at this case, have to start looking at everyones alibis and we all know that family alibis are always looked at in these cases. And then there is the recent judges ruling which is quoted in news reports as saying:
http://www.unionleader.com/article....ec-4d23727040df
DocWho3,
I pride myself in being cooperative, understanding, easy to anger and most forgiving.
BUT, based on the actions of LE in Maura's case what person would be able to maintain a working relationship with LE:
to name a few:
not doing more than a drive up and down the road and failing to issue a BOL
Not notifying the owner of the car - Fred Murray
not beginning to organize a search for her until the family insisted and failing to do a line search for her until July 2004
not accepting the invitation of the FBI
not accepting the invitation from MA SP to use some sort of specialized computer data base to compile and subsequently cross reference info -- no, you will not find this in the media, but it is true - Lt. Scarinza initially accepted the offer and later refused.
continually issuing insinuations and/or false statements that leads the public to believe that LE *knew* Maura was suicidal
failing to check some very simple and basic leads such as her cell phone calls
issuing statements to the press instead of any family member about searches or statements that ruled out a deceased as being Maura and the family learns of it when the media calls for their comment.
.........the list grows too long
Now, I don't know about you, bu if you are a missing person's family member, and you have been working behind the scenes to have a working relationship and to remedy somoe of these mistakes (were they mistakes?) and LE is making disparaging remarks about your loved one, how long are you going to maintain a WARM relationship?
Somewhere I read or heard Sharon Rausch say that while they were in NH looking for Maura and LE would not cooperate that she wanted to go at NH LE with their guns ablazing (not real guns!) and Fred Murray reminded everyone daily that LE was their only hope and of the importance in develping a good relationship, not an adversarial one. I just wonder how much of this "cold" relationship is the doing of LE and not just the Murray Family???
In spite of people not being comfortable with police bashing ( to say nothing of those who are uncomfortable with bashing of any sort ) if this were your loved one ( your wife or daughter ), do you suppose that you might be "guilty" of the same behavior as Fred Murray?
Regardless of why Maura is missing, I have problems with anyone who denies that her case was mishandled from the beginning. And there have been many professional members of LE who have told the family that they agree with my assessment.
docwho3
Registered User Join Date: Oct 2005
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communication is often difficult
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Originally Posted by Peabody
DocWho3,
I pride myself in being cooperative, understanding, easy to anger and most forgiving. . .
I know, I know, it was probably a typo but it made me smile, and a smile makes the day seem brighter.
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Originally Posted by Peabody
. . .BUT, based on the actions of LE in Maura's case what person would be able to maintain a working relationship with LE: . . .
I think you misunderstood what I meant when I said, "However, so far I see a decidely cold relationship between L.E. and Maura's family being depicted by the family statements as quoted in news reports. This, to me, makes it sound almost as if L.E. were treating them as POI or suspects." I was not commenting that the family acted coldly towards L.E. but that their statments told of L.E. acting coldly towards the family. Family has been quoted as complaining about lack of information and lack of willingness to communicate from L.E. towards family.
Peabody
Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004
Posts: 514
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Originally Posted by Peabody
DocWho3,
I pride myself in being cooperative, understanding, easy to anger and most forgiving.
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Originally Posted by docwho3
I know, I know, it was probably a typo but it made me smile, and a smile makes the day seem brighter.
I think you misunderstood what I meant when I said, "However, so far I see a decidely cold relationship between L.E. and Maura's family being depicted by the family statements as quoted in news reports. This, to me, makes it sound almost as if L.E. were treating them as POI or suspects." I was not commenting that the family acted coldly towards L.E. but that their statments told of L.E. acting coldly towards the family. Family has been quoted as complaining about lack of information and lack of willingness to communicate from L.E. towards family.
I too laughed DocWho3 - much needed might add.
I am quite certain that my anger is showing
I meant to say that I am slow to anger - but as the Bible says "Hell knows no fury like the scorn of a woman" and I am angry
...........thanks for your sense of humor and pointing it out to me
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Peabody
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This post was edited by Animal to remove quote of removed post and discussion of it. Animal04216
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Originally Posted by DocWho3
I have been rereading those articles and continue to do so. However, so far I see a decidely cold relationship between L.E. and Maura's family being depicted by the family statements as quoted in news reports. This, to me, makes it sound almost as if L.E. were treating them as POI or suspects. (Is that a hint such as you spoke of?) You might want to remember that I am one of those that has theorized that Maura left on her own and that it may be possible that no crime occured but the family/supporters have continually cried "foul play". So once you say foul play must have occured I,and anyone looking at this case, have to start looking at everyones alibis and we all know that family alibis are always looked at in these cases. And then there is the recent judges ruling which is quoted in news reports as saying:
http://www.unionleader.com/article....ec-4d23727040df
Evidently the state believes evidence might be destroyed and that witnesses might be chilled or intimidated if the info was released to Fred Murray.
(Is that a hint?) Does this mean I am accusing anyone?-"No." I am merely showing that there is reason to ask questions so there is no need to act as if asking the question is somehow out of line and uncalled for or that the questions would not also be asked in other similar cases.
If Fred Murray wins his law suit against NH LE and authorities, not ony will the information be released to him, but also to the public. Usually, it is the media that files one of these lawsuits.
To think/believe/suggest that only Fred Murray might destroy evidence or intimidated witnesses is, in my opinion, takiing a very narrow view of what the judge is saying. My take is that any person that reviewed the released records might by these actions jeopardize the case.
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Originally Posted by DocWho3
I would think that these questions would be a welcome thing since it gives family a chance to establish truth and attempt put to rest any doubts so that once all questions have been satisfied people can move on to other aspects of the case.
I am interpreting this to mean that "questions" concerning the alibis of the family were posed here and the family found them to be upsetting. Prior to your query about ablibis, I did not see any questions posed in a fashion that indicated real anwers were being sought - as I usually try to answer qustions.
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Added Note:I just opened another window and looked at the thread before posting this because it took so long to compose this reply, and I saw that Peabody has posted some info. Good. Info is a welcome thing.
I do my best to provide factual information.