I agree, however I think kids should come first no matter what. JMO
Narla, should I correct your Grammar? LOL, or Grammer????
LOL- please do!!
Kids should come first yes- but having no life just because you have kids and have been divorced is ridiculous.
Teaching your kids they are the centre of the universe is detrimental in the long run.
Even a divorced person has the right to find happiness again in the form of a male companion.