Your civil rights aren't at issue either. You are entitled to the same thing I am entitled to. If I want to marry someone of the opposite sex, I can. If I want to contract with someone of the same sex to be the guardian of my child, or to take care of my effects when I die, or leave my life insurance to whomever I choose, or make life decisions if I'm incapable, I sign a note with my doctor or give them power of attorney. I can, and so can you.
You are entitled to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. That doesn't mean entitlement to redefine words to suit your personal needs, or to bully or name calling such as when someone doesn't yield to your way of thinking.
Society in general, and laws in general still indicate that marriage is between a man and a woman. Yes there are a few states that see it differently, and we'll see if they stand as laws or not. Marriage is not a civil right - homosexuals and heterosexuals continue to enjoy political and social freedom with or without marriage.
I will continue to merely observe the tolerance that you preach on threads like this, because I don't see it on all threads in all subjects.