Found Deceased NY - Avonte Oquendo, 14, Long Island City, 4 Oct 2013

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He could very well be curled up in a little ball somewhere in an alley. Autistic children often feel comforted by being in tight spaces. Some people have been searching up and down alleys which I am sure a scary thing to do.

Thanks to your co-workers who have been searching, readtoomanymysteries!
 
Hi Traveling Bug,
Could you please tell me the brand name of the gps device
My son has Autism and this story makes me realize he needs one

This is the one they have - Amber Alert GPS.

You buy the device and pay a monthly monitoring amount on a subscription based plan depending on the services you want. You can access from a computer or phone.

There's an SOS button so your child can alert you if there's an incident, and you can have SOS alerts sent to others (up to 10 people) as well.

It can show the speed at which they are travelling (to know if they were taken in a car, etc. Or if you're worried about the speeds your kids drive!)

You can set 'zone' alerts if you want it to notify you if your child has entered or exited a particular zone (like around your home/yard or their school, sports practice location, church, or wherever they go regularly). That can also be sent to others on your list.

You can opt to have it notify you if they're within a certain distance of the residence of any documented sexual predator, etc.

And then you can do the voice thing (apparently it goes either way, I thought it was only that you could listen to them, but apparently they can call you) but only you can listen to them.

My understanding is that even if you don't have the plan with all the features that in the case of a true emergency the voice feature can be activated, but I'd suspect that may take more time.

My friends have the highest plan just so they have all the tools at their resource at any time and there's no delay.

It's a pretty nifty thing!

And like I said (or maybe it was my earlier post about it) they attach it to her belt (on her side so she doesn't hit it leaning back or throwing herself on the ground) or her belt loops or band of her pants and she doesn't really even realize it's there b/c to her it's just something everyone has in her mind apparently (and this is a bright girl who gets into stuff and she doesn't mess with it - I think just being discrete when they first started using it helped).

They attach it to her shoe laces if she's in a dress or something that doesn't really have something to attach it to pants wise. Shoe laces, if it's laced through well, might be the best place to put it as far as it being harder for a kid to get it off (or slower). And if someone really tried to take a child, I don't suspect they'd think to look at their shoes.

If you had an older child who had a phone, I know there are similar things you can do on a phone or itouch, but if someone took your child, that perhaps could get snatched or left I'd think.

They're grateful for it, that's for sure! They were having an issue at school a few years ago and they used the voice thing periodically to listen briefly to be sure all was ok - so even in other situations it can be helpful.

Hope that helps :)
 
It is incredibly scary. It's not warm out here, and the fact that no one has come forward with info (publicly at least) is telling. I pray for his safe return, but it is not sitting right with me. I really can't stress enough how much media is covering this. My students who don't traditionally pay attention to anything other than music, video games, or the opposite sex are even talking about Avonte. His face is everywhere. Why haven't we seen him???
 
So glad to hear he doesn't like water! That's a huge help in at least being a deterrent and not something that he'd be naturally drawn to.

And even more glad to hear there are a bunch of posters in transit stations and a MUCH bigger reward! That should all be helpful!

Interesting idea marking some of them wanted. I could see how that may get the attention of more, but I hope people read it enough to realize he's not dangerous or something, thus staying away from him.
 
Hoping for good news here, and saying a prayer, just in case that helps.
 
Have the enlisted the help of the homeless? I thought lots of people actually live under the city in some of those tunnels.


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Have the enlisted the help of the homeless? I thought lots of people actually live under the city in some of those tunnels.


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I had that same thought. Home Alone comes to mind when Kevin befriended "the pigeon lady". Maybe police have a good repoire with some of them.
 
I can't imagine him being on his own for a week and getting enough food and drinks. It was said he doesn't know how to feed himself. If someone isn't helping him get food, what is he doing?
 
I can't imagine him being on his own for a week and getting enough food and drinks. It was said he doesn't know how to feed himself. If someone isn't helping him get food, what is he doing?

I'd like some clarification on that eating thing.


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Imo,someone must be caring for him. Otherwise he would have been found unconscious or something worse. :cry: I pray he is found soon.
 
Have the enlisted the help of the homeless? I thought lots of people actually live under the city in some of those tunnels.


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This sounds plausible (and hopeful) to me...

the homeless may not have access to as much MSM... Thus are not following this case as closely... So they may not have notified anyone...

Or... They may be afraid of consequences if they do...

Just some thoughts...
 
I hope theyre also looking in dumpsters, containers and drums. He could have curled up into/behind one of these, too. I am so so scared that he's been missing a week... it is such a long time to be gone.
 
$70K Reward For Safe Return Of Missing Autistic Boy From Queens
Avonte Oquendo, 14, Missing For A Week; Vigil Held Friday In Long Island City

October 11, 2013 11:13 PM

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Autism Speaks announced Friday that it has increased the reward from $50,000 to $70,000.
<snipped>
Because of the 14-year-old’s fascination with trains, Kelly said every bit of subway track and all stations, including those abandoned, are getting a second going over. He added the search may be expanded to NJ TRANSIT and the LIRR.

http://newyork.cbslocal.com/2013/10/11/vigil-to-be-held-for-safe-return-of-missing-autistic-boy-from-queens/
 
Not a stupid comment. Not all people with autism run for the water- some run away from it- depends on their sensory issues.

He is into trains... hopefully they will find him on one.

BBM Thank you.:blushing: Couldn't check his thread for a few days but I saw his case was covered on Nancy Grace last night! I was thrilled to see that he had some national coverage.
 
Was hoping there would be news today. I worked with Autism students for 20 years, and this always upsets me. I wonder if he would be trying to go home and would he know how to get there? If everyone would check their properties and report minor thefts or attempted break-ins (like for food and shelter), it may help. These kids behave one way in a structured setting and quite another without it. :(

I read that this was a new school for him so he wouldn't know how to get home. Good idea about any unusual thefts or activities.

I'm so afraid that he is just one small child in a sea of thousands and he will be lost in plain sight.
 
I'm glad to see a 24 hour tent set up at the school. Avonte's clothing description should stay constant as long as he doesn't pick up a jacket and cover up his striped shirt. He must be so tired and dirty by now. Tomorrow will be a week.

Sorry to be so graphic and personal but...I wonder about Avonte's toilet habits. If he is soiling himself he would surely draw a lot of attention on the trains.

Ahh Plumeria I know. My heart is aching. I have never wanted to participate in a search so badly as I do right now. The poor confused, hungry, scared boy.

Avonte please come home!
 

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