Found Deceased NY - Jennifer Ramsaran, 36, Chenango County, 11 Dec 2012 - # 3

[enzeder]

:waiting::butthead:

:yes:

I also got the impression, reading his comment, that he might actually be blaming JR that their whole lives are under the microscope and being judged by strangers now. IMO

Link to post with GR comment.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f....116046405231622.21590.116018661901063&type=1

 

[ozgirl70]

In this same article he says something along the lines of her losing 20 pounds, not in a good way, then goes on to say how proud he was.

Why would you be proud of someone for losing weight in an unhealthy manner?

Just another strange bit IMO.

IMO looking at the photographs, Jennifer lost a lot more than 20 pounds between March and November.


And WTH is he talking about... 'in an unhealthy way'. That's a long time to drop 20 or even 40 pounds. It doesn't sound too OTT to me.

I can't get over his pity party. She changed. She spent money just on herself. She stopped cooking... oh poor diddums. :moo::moo::moo::moo:

 

[OffRoadRunner]

ORR ~ are there any e-billboards in Norwich? Seems to me that would be the best place to put a pic of her and her car.

Come to think of it, Yes there is Jillian. It is on the south side, on Route 12 by the Bed / Mattress store, just south of the Walmart.

 

[MissieMt]

Thank you for that link Enzeder. That was a pretty interesting comment, but it leaves me still confused.
Is it considered "normal" to only kiss your spouse on the cheek before leaving? Does anyone here only kiss their spouse on the cheek? I've been married almost 15 years, and we've been told we're more affectionate towards each other than most couples, but I can't imagine only kissing him on the cheek. Makes me sad just thinking about it.

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

It yanked me as well - not sure why, as it really shouldn't have. I work from home (presuming GR did/does too?) and it's fairly common (albeit lazy) for me to not dress properly until late in the day - I could hear myself saying something similar if a family member went missing from an errand I saw them leave on.

Maybe he was in his work out clothes?

Just a thought...

 

[krey]

O/T -- It's very frustrating to hit the Thanks button on a post, have it not show up, and then have to refresh the page and do it again. And then have to do the same thing all over again a couple of posts later. I wish they would fix this glitch!! For the record, I'm not currently in the mood to refresh the page 10 million times, but I do like all you guys' posts, lol.

 

[terracotta]

In statement analysis when someone tells about saying good bye or kissing good bye etc it is usually a very sensitive time when something (bad) happens...just saying...

 

[krey]

:yes:

I also got the impression, reading his comment, that he might actually be blaming JR that their whole lives are under the microscope and being judged by strangers now. IMO

Link to post with GR comment.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f....116046405231622.21590.116018661901063&type=1

He seems to blame her for a whole lot of stuff, huh?! The best word I could think of to describe his attitude towards her is "resentful."

 

[Piperdog]

Still no photo of JR on the local electronic billboard, which is located on I88, in Oneonta.

Cynthia (Lavonda here on WS, PR spokesperson for GR) has the contact information for this sign. I gave Cynthia this information over a week ago, as the request to put JR's picture up there has to come from family. As GR's spokesperson (may be using the wrong title here, sorry), I'm assuming she has given him this vital information, as it is to my knowledge, the closed electronic billboard to the home (correct me if I'm wrong, ORR).

I can now only assume that there's good reason why JR's picture isn't up there.

ORR ~ are there any e-billboards in Norwich? Seems to me that would be the best place to put a pic of her and her car.

Yes, there is one on Route 12 south of town by Chenango Welding.

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

:yes:

I also got the impression, reading his comment, that he might actually be blaming JR that their whole lives are under the microscope and being judged by strangers now. IMO

Link to post with GR comment.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f....116046405231622.21590.116018661901063&type=1

Kinda whiney to me... Sounds to me like there was a bit of blaming her for making focus placed on him....

Funny.... Because he couldn't stay away from the cameras to show his... Um... Muscles!

JMO

 

[krey]

In statement analysis when someone tells about saying good bye or kissing good bye etc it is usually a very sensitive time when something (bad) happens...just saying...

What do you mean by "a very sensitive time" in relation to saying or kissing goodbye?

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

When did GR supposedly ask Jennifer for a divorce? And why?

I'm wondering if she was already losing weight then, or if she made a concerted effort to lose weight, thinking it would save her marriage.

Personally... I am thinking she started losing weight when she found out there was an "alleged" affair between her husband and BF.... In my experience that would be shocking enough to prevent me from having an appetite...

Once she started losing weight... She may have decided she like the effect... And contined... Though it may not have been difficult.... It would take quite a while to get over/through that type of double betrayal...

JMO

 

[Tennlyn]

O/T -- It's very frustrating to hit the Thanks button on a post, have it not show up, and then have to refresh the page and do it again. And then have to do the same thing all over again a couple of posts later. I wish they would fix this glitch!! For the record, I'm not currently in the mood to refresh the page 10 million times, but I do like all you guys' posts, lol.

I just hit thanks on all the posts and then refresh after the last one. All my 'thanks' then show up.

 

[enzeder]

He seems to blame her for a whole lot of stuff, huh?! The best word I could think of to describe his attitude towards her is "resentful."

Yes, resentful. That's a better word to describe the impression I got reading his words about their lives being under the microscope etc. IMO

 

[Sharoneonta]

He seems to blame her for a whole lot of stuff, huh?! The best word I could think of to describe his attitude towards her is "resentful."

Again:
"It's not me, it's you"

 

[krey]

I just hit thanks on all the posts and then refresh after the last one. All my 'thanks' then show up.

Every rare once in a while that will work for me, but usually it doesn't - I'll refresh and then have to hit the Thanks again.

And for some odd reason, my Thanks on enzeder's posts NEVER take the first time. (Nothing personal, I am sure, haha - just a very strange glitch)

I feel like this about it sometimes :banghead:

 

[momrids6]

Yes, resentful. That's a better word to describe the impression I got reading his words about their lives being under the microscope etc. IMO

Main Entry: prima donna
Part of Speech: noun
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Synonyms: conceited person, crybaby, egotist, narcissist, princess, self-centered person, spoiled brat, vain person
:butthead:

http://thesaurus.com/browse/narcissist?s=t

 

[Jilllian]

Any other local e-billboards? What about regular paper billboards? In Norwich, do they change from one advertisement to another, or are they pretty much rented on a regular basis from whichever company is renting them?

 

[enzeder]

Maybe he was in his work out clothes?

Just a thought...

BBM - But a good one!

 

[enzeder]

Personally... I am thinking she started losing weight when she found out there was an "alleged" affair between her husband and BF.... In my experience that would be shocking enough to prevent me from having an appetite...

Once she started losing weight... She may have decided she like the effect... And contined... Though it may not have been difficult.... It would take quite a while to get over/through that type of double betrayal...

JMO

BBM - Exactly what I've been thinking too IHAVENOCLUE. IMO