She also wouldn't be the first ex-partner/ex-lover to either not know or deny that their ehis saydx was bi or gay
My mentioning the ex girlfriend (there was mention of girlfriends in NY too) mainly was you can tell alot from past relationships, especially when they lived together. She didn't have bad things to say of his treatment toward her, anger, beatings, or narcissist emotional abuse. I do tend to think this says something about his relationships with others, how he conducts himself. He may have stolen in the past, but that does not make one more capable of killing than someone who has not stolen.
In regards to finding an ultra rich sugar daddy, this happens often, not only in the gay community. How many women desire a man more for his money than for his personality, character, body, looks, and age? We have 20 years olds having babies with a 70 some old Mick Jagger.