Thanks. I was confused about how they used postmortem injuries when talking about a baby that may have been stillborn. Would that be after death even if you were never technically alive? It's still death?
Couple of thoughts after listening to the tapes with her parents....MOO
1. She is lying and is used to lying to her parents. Mommy mommy. Sounds fake and contrived. Lots of experience doing this. I hear no remorse or anything from her. Sounds like a spoiled, self centered brat. I find her completely unlikable and untrustworthy.
2. Mother is only concerned about family’s reputation. Doesn’t show any empathy towards her daughter (but how would I feel if evidence showed my daughter KILLED a baby - I may give mom a break for this). Seems like some long-standing dysfunction in this family.
3. Dad. Seems disgusted by this whole situation. Is used to her lies. Knows she is lying but so hard to grasp his daughter could do this, so grasping. Seems somewhat believable. Shock. Anger. But he knows the truth and doesn’t want to believe it.
Respectfully snipped by me for focus.
1. I think she is misremembering what happened with the umbilical cord due to her level of shock and possibly some repression of memory due to the obvious trauma of it all. When her father asked her about the bloody towels and whether the placenta was part of what she threw away "somewhere else" (sidenote, did anyone ever ask where that was?), she did say that yes, the placenta was part of the mess she put in a bag and took away. It wasn't with the baby in the ground, according to what she said. Placentas are, frankly, repulsive (especially to someone who didn't want to give birth) and not something you could carry easily like a newborn. (They're also fascinating, but I digress...). So if that's all true, something happened to separate the baby from the cord/placenta and spontaneous separation is extremely rare. I think the moment of birth and the ten minutes or so afterward were probably the height of this trauma for BSR and she doesn't remember cutting the cord, but she did.
2. The decomposed state of the tiny, fragile baby's body and the fact that it was in a very shallow grave in what appears to be a lawn makes me think that if there really are skull fractures, they could be the result of animal activity rather than birth trauma or murder. The reference to a "puncture-type" fracture is what most makes me think this. This does not mean that BSR couldn't have also contributed to the baby's death, of course, I just think that all the focus on the skull fractures in the courtroom and media might be not completely useful.
I think what Skylar said & how she acted when her parents were there in the interrogation room might be important to the jury. It was for me.
But..I didn't see what you saw at all, except for her mother's self absorption & utter lack of empathy. I found Skylar's pleas to mommy both genuine & heartbreaking, actually. And her mother's withholding of support & then deliberate cruelty went a long way to explaining why Skylar would have found it impossible to tell her parents she was pregnant.
Also, I didn't get the impression that Skylar was a habitual liar, or that her father thought she was. She had clearly lied about being pregnant- both directly and by omission, but that doesn't make her anything other than a frightened young woman who knew her mother would shred her, not support her.
The baby died of homicidal violence, IF it was a stillborn that would not have happened that way.
Skylar said the baby was alive for 5 minutes.
I wonder if she intentionally did not clear the airway so the child woukd die.
Jmo
Thanks. I think I over thought that one. lolYes, it would.
It is clear you have put a lot of thought into your posts. Nice.
I agree with you, here. I think she panicked. And I do think the baby was alive and fragile and she didn't do anything that killed the baby (suffocate, burn, crush the skull, etc) other than neglect and panic. She stated at one point during the interview that she doesn't rely on her parents or friends and just deals with things on her own. It was clear from her mother's behavior why that is true and how that could contribute to this outcome. BSR overestimated her ability to handle the situation herself because she clearly had never been in a situation she couldn't handle herself. By the time the baby was born, died, and was buried, she thought she had handled it and no one would ever know. It IS a crime to neglect your child to death and it IS a crime to improperly dispose of a corpse. She should face some repercussions, but I don't see a cold calculated murderer here.
I don’t think she would have known to do that. Her mom or dad yes, but not her unless she had a health class in school that went over things about a birthThe baby died of homicidal violence, IF it was a stillborn that would not have happened that way.
Skylar said the baby was alive for 5 minutes.
I wonder if she intentionally did not clear the airway so the child woukd die.
Jmo
To intentionally do that, one would have to know the airway needed to be cleared. I doubt there are a lot of 18 year old women who know that without research. I'm going to be very interested in what they found on BSR's computer.
If she was having trouble she should have called 911.
I think she intended for her child to die and now she is playing stupid and saying over and over "I did not mean to kill her/it" etc. hoping that they will believe her story.
Jmo
She worked with children at the YMCA so I would think she would know that.
Jmo
The baby died of homicidal violence, IF it was a stillborn that would not have happened that way.
Skylar said the baby was alive for 5 minutes.
I wonder if she intentionally did not clear the airway so the child woukd die.
Jmo
I don’t think she would have known to do that. Her mom or dad yes, but not her unless she had a health class in school that went over things about a birth
I am bumping this up for @SpellboundThis photo was shown on the screen in the courtroom by the prosecution during their opening statements. It described the baby was alive for about 5 minutes. BSR heard the baby gurgle and cry.
*The screenshot I’ve attached below is of that photo and was taken from the FOX 19 livestream during opening statements.
JMO
If she was having trouble she should have called 911.
I think she intended for her child to die and now she is playing stupid and saying over and over "I did not mean to kill her/it" etc. hoping that they will believe her story.
Jmo
The baby died of homicidal violence, IF it was a stillborn that would not have happened that way.
Skylar said the baby was alive for 5 minutes.
I wonder if she intentionally did not clear the airway so the child woukd die.
Jmo
She worked with children at the YMCA so I would think she would know that.
Jmo
I agree with you, here. I think she panicked. And I do think the baby was alive and fragile and she didn't do anything that killed the baby (suffocate, burn, crush the skull, etc) other than neglect and panic. She stated at one point during the interview that she doesn't rely on her parents or friends and just deals with things on her own. It was clear from her mother's behavior why that is true and how that could contribute to this outcome. BSR overestimated her ability to handle the situation herself because she clearly had never been in a situation she couldn't handle herself. By the time the baby was born, died, and was buried, she thought she had handled it and no one would ever know. It IS a crime to neglect your child to death and it IS a crime to improperly dispose of a corpse. She should face some repercussions, but I don't see a cold calculated murderer here.