CARIIS
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I don't know anything about those apps, but is it possible to use them just to talk to others, and not meet face to face? Even as Joey used those apps, I don't think there has been any kind of confirmation of how many of those he were in contact with on those apps that he met face to face. Maybe he used those apps for hook-ups, or maybe just for talking with other men, I don't think (most of us here) know for sure how comfortable he was with random hook-ups. Just by having the opportunity to have random sex means that one has to take it. Joey was out that evening with relatives and was to meet up with friends later, was it his normal behaviour to "sneak away" for a hook-up, or was it something he didn't normally do?
I think anything is possible. But IMO, generally speaking there is just a different motivation, in gay world. I rarely saw guys , in the bars, approacing fat ugly men.
And there were other actions that night, and unlike generally females are actually meeting someone to see if they want to date someone.
Not applying to every woman, but i think on those apps stright or gay, the males are much more motivated to hook up. Males I think are hoping to get laid.
I think it woud "rarer" for woman to say I am going on line, for some sex tonight. I think it would be more "where does work"? !!!! Wonder if he has been divorced, has kids etc.
Again it goes more to male female that orientatoion IMO