Oprah to feature Kyron on Thursday 9/16

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I believe Oprah will be compassionate.

There is no need for any one to feel guilt unless they were part of a plan to take Kyron away. That includes Terri, if she is innocent. There are many reasons parents may not attend this school event or that. I agree this would be a good topic for Oprah...what, in our society today, makes us judge folks we do not know from afar...when we have, thankfully, never walked a mile in their suffering shoes?

There is no justifiable reason for anyone to put "guilt" into the minds of any innocent individual whether it be Kaine, Desiree, or Terri about the events that day..unless they are withholding information or LE has evidence that will show that they were complicit in this crime.

Hurting a child appalls us because of the child's vulnerability. Hurting the people who most loved that child...who are suffering from the enormity of a crime like this... is also IMO attacking the vulnerable. I do not believe Oprah will do that.
Oprah will be kind, for sure. She's also very frank, though, when interviewing victims, and asks straight forward questions. I agree that no honest victim has to answer for her actions. It makes me furious to see a person already in pain put on the hot seat by a host who's only interested in ratings. But good interviewers know how to ask questions that elicit responses to the harsh accusations of a judgmental public. It's a technique that, when implemented carefully and with respect, can be a means to enlighten the viewer asking "why didn't you?" and "how could you?". And I'd say Oprah's got it mastered. So I wouldn't be surprised to hear a few tough questions. But, personally, I hope to hear more about red-eyed tree frogs.
 
OK everyone...I started the following thread on the Oprah.com message board and the mods approved it and posted it....

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE if anyone has a minute go to the site and reply to my post in support of Kyron. There is strength in numbers and O's mods are on duty 24/7.

They report back activity to the producers and staff regularly and if we can generate enough buzz around Kyron's story and get across how much he has come to mean to all of us, I just know she will lengthen the segment or maybe even do a whole episode.

We have to move kind of quickly though since Thursday isnt far off....

http://www.oprah.com/community/thread/143760
 
I haven't watched Oprah in years.

I will be watching for Kyron though. :)
 
I just saw a promo for the show tomorrow. The people who were held hostage at work and Kyron Horman.

Haven't seen Oprah in years (just like Kat) but am thrilled she has taken precious Kyron's story national again. Thank God.

Where are you angel?
 
I just saw a promo for the show tomorrow. The people who were held hostage at work and Kyron Horman.

Haven't seen Oprah in years (just like Kat) but am thrilled she has taken precious Kyron's story national again. Thank God.

Where are you angel?

Headlines everywhere are that Oprah landed the very first interview with the Discovery Channel hostages. I wonder if the Kyron story will be on first or last?

http://tv.yahoo.com/oprah-winfrey-s...lands-first-interview-with-discovery-hostages

With the missing Lindsey Baum case, Oprah sent her crew to McCleary Washington for interviews. She covers missing child cases when there is time and if she feels any one case can teach her audience something important. Maybe this case is being covered because Kyron went missing from school.

Since Terri and Kaine know who orchestrated the abduction of Kyron, I'm not sure who the appeals will be to tomorrow.

Guess I'm worried that the case will be thrown off track more than it presently is. moo mho
 
Let's hope that Oprah focuses on Kyron being missing and not on Terri as suspect. She does tend to go for the most sensational aspect, as does any television host, so I am hoping for the best, but as a non-fan of her show and others like it..I will be a little wary.

I'm a little wary, too--the few episodes I've watched in recent years were about situations that I had previous knowledge of, and Oprah's show put weird twists on the agenda instead of giving the guest adequate time to tell their story...
 
I hope this Oprah airing brings some additional information. That would be wonderful.

Oveall, Debs, I think that your bringing forward of how the parents might feel, and subsequent discussions, is a good thing. Because, well, we all know that the "what if" type of thing can eat us alive.

I'd like to see Dr. Phil, who's previously done a show on abductions from schools, also host KH & DY. I'm certain he would have empathetic, caring insight about dealing with such tragedies that could help many families.

ThoughtFox, I'm confused about something. You said, in an earlier post "If she is innocent, then why didn't she make sure Kyron was safely back in class? "

I thought that the children weren't going directly to class, but were organized in groups to go look at the science fair? Am I mistaken?

And, I also have a concern about all the parents who didn't make sure their children were "safely back in class"--the parents of those who ride the buses. I rode buses for many, many years, until my senior year when I could finally drive my car (a hand-me-down little Nash Rambler, and yes the horn went beep! beep! beep!) and all of us who rode buses didn't expect to have our parents at the other end, no matter what the activity, to walk us into the classroom.

I just hate to see an entire group of parents, who weren't there to walk their kids into class, called into question. I don't think that any of the parents in my young days, including my own, loved us any the less or failed because we rode the buses--as so many Skyline children do--and didn't have parents walking us into class. JMO, of course.

It's so hard to raise and nuture children. And going along with the school's plans, and allowing your children to walk into class without you, until they sit down or something, doesn't signal anything negative or about bad parenting to me.

I really an looking forward to seeing how Oprah handles this complex situation. And most of all, maybe, just maybe, more publicity will help find Kyron.

bbm

Yes--and debs made a point that makes a parent pause and reflect--about priorities. We cannot predict what others might do, especially if they have intentions to harm, but we *can* put our children (and families!) first and make choices in their upbringing and daily lives that will give us peace of mind no matter what happens...
 
bbm

Yes--and debs made a point that makes a parent pause and reflect--about priorities. We cannot predict what others might do, especially if they have intentions to harm, but we *can* put our children (and families!) first and make choices in their upbringing and daily lives that will give us peace of mind no matter what happens...

I'm pretty sure that when a parent makes a decision not to drive 4 hours starting at the crack of dawn, and taking a day off work, to attend a science fair for an hour, they're not putting it on the scale with, if I don't do this, my child will be abducted, kidnapped or killed. I find that concept totally, completely and incredibly offensive. jmoo
 
bbm

Yes--and debs made a point that makes a parent pause and reflect--about priorities. We cannot predict what others might do, especially if they have intentions to harm, but we *can* put our children (and families!) first and make choices in their upbringing and daily lives that will give us peace of mind no matter what happens...

I am pretty sure Kaine thought he was doing that. He was working very hard to earn enough money so that his wife could be a stay at home mom. That is very much a luxury in these economic times. Do you think Kaine should have quit his job so he could make sure Terri was doing hers? :furious:
 
I'm pretty sure that when a parent makes a decision not to drive 4 hours starting at the crack of dawn, and taking a day off work, to attend a science fair for an hour, they're not putting it on the scale with, if I don't do this, my child will be abducted, kidnapped or killed. I find that concept totally, completely and incredibly offensive. jmoo

There might have been some other decisions that the parents now wish they hadn't made but IMO even if Kaine and/or Desiree had been there at the science fair it quite probably wouldn't have made a difference one way or another.

If Kyron was targeted specifically by Terri or some other people he would probably have been taken anyway, it would just have happened a few minutes later when Kaine and Desiree had left or some different day. If there is a ring of some sort involved I doubt any people with that kind of evil would say, "Okay, he's got his parents here today, so let's forget abducting, abusing and murdering him and let's just be nice to him in the future instead."

If it was an unplanned crime of opportunity by a stranger and he was taken straight after Terri had left him to walk to his class Kaine and Desiree might have taken away his window of opportunity by walking Kyron all the way to his class but who knows, if he said "That's the bell, I have to go now, bye" and ran off he might have been alone in that same hallway at the same time he was taken now regardless. Or maybe the stranger would have stayed and lurked and grabbed some other child in some other hallway. If he did in fact go to his class and was abducted (by anybody) some time after the groups had begun touring with chaperons Kaine and Desiree being there wouldn't have made any difference because they might not have stayed for the chaperoned tours and could have left the same time Terri did. If I've understood it correctly the parents were supposed to tour the exhibits with their children before 8:45 am.

On topic:
I hope you guys will do your usual excellent recaps of what is being said in the Oprah show because I won't be able to see it. Pretty please?
 
We seem to be on the same page lately and Im so gald you got to this before I did....thanks just isnt enough!

:dance:

I agree, and there's not one person on this page that hasn't had a "what if" moment. We all do!

If Kyron hadn't gone missing on the day of the science fair, I do believe he would have gone missing another day. KH and D trusted TH with the life of their son. And if TH had anything to do with it (today is a "she did it day for me") she would have found another opportunity.

I'm glad Oprah is focusing on this. She doesn't cover missing children very often (usually leaving that to Dr. Phil) so this must have really hit home for her. Heck, even the Anthony's didn't get on her show when Caylee was still missing.

I hope this helps....I know we all do :)

Hugs,

Mel
 
I haven't watched Oprah in years.

I will be watching for Kyron though. :)

You missed a fab show the other day. She had on the JUDDS :) My fav's since way way way back when.

oops - sorry to get OT. But I think the new season will bring some really great shows! And if this helps Kyron's case in any way - it will be even better!

Mel
 
I'm going to watch Oprah at 9am here in Chicago and take some notes. Don't know if Kaine and Desiree will be on in the beginning or end. She is also having an interview about the mom who pushed her car into the water killing the children and with the hostages from the Discovery channel.

Looks like a storm brewing here so I'll be back with notes between 9 and 10am Central time. Now it is 8:55am.
 
I agree, and there's not one person on this page that hasn't had a "what if" moment. We all do!

If Kyron hadn't gone missing on the day of the science fair, I do believe he would have gone missing another day. KH and D trusted TH with the life of their son. And if TH had anything to do with it (today is a "she did it day for me") she would have found another opportunity.

I'm glad Oprah is focusing on this. She doesn't cover missing children very often (usually leaving that to Dr. Phil) so this must have really hit home for her. Heck, even the Anthony's didn't get on her show when Caylee was still missing.

I hope this helps....I know we all do :)

Hugs,

Mel

BBM. ITA with the earlier thoughts.

The Anthony's didn't get on her show because of their innapropriate behavior and denial that still continues today. So many people complained about her having them on her show that she cancelled on them (though Cindy Anthony later texted that she had cancelled on Oprah, ha ha ha. Funny but not funny at the same time). I don't think she is willing to invite people on her show to get notoriety through negative publicity like some shows. Every show the Anthony's have been on has made the case worse for Casey and more frustrating not only for the SA and defense, but for those of us following it. I'm betting to this day Oprah is glad she cancelled on them.

But yes, I do agree that this can only be good for Kyron's case, and Oprah will be compassionate with them. I will probably not be able to watch it myself, but I'm hoping for a good recap later!
 
NOTES FROM OPRAH - Desiree and Kaine (9am Chicago time):

Discovery hostages on first.
Family of mom who killed little boys (tragic, now I know why I don't watch Oprah at 9am.

Kyron:

A great review of the case through pictures and explanation by Oprah.
...June 4th - dropped at school
...doesn't get off of bus
...reported absent by Kaine and Terri
...massive search
...video of Gates, family, standing together - ...Terri's story isn't adding enough, failing 2 polygraphs...
...video of Desiree begging for Kyron
...review of MFH
...Shows public plea from Desiree to Terri and others involved
...Terri's attorney declined comment for show***

The latest from Kyron Hormans' parents...

(My comment) Desiree and Kaine look exhausted and yet, Desiree looks lovely as usual.

Oprah: Police have not formally charged Terri and consider her a suspect - do you?
Yes (both Kaine and Desiree nod) she knows what happened to Kyron and and has something to do with disappearance.

Oprah: Why would she do this?
Desiree: Since Kyron went missing, red flags all over the place

Oprah: How was Desiree when Kyron wasn't on bus?
Kaine - Terri seemed upset, reaction was more about her and inconvenience of investigation on her

Oprah: How did she act that made you think of guilt?
Kaine - Actions after failed polygraph - changed story daily - no believable story

Oprah: Why would she want to cause harm to her son?
Desiree: She had a good relationship with Kyron. Kyron did nothing out of the ordinary, didn't want to go back some times - he was unhappy with Terri, but nothing that unusual between step-mom and step-son.

My comment - there was no real answer as to why Terri would want to cause harm to Kyron.

Short interview - I may have missed words and questions. Not exact. Oprah was nearing the end of her show - she changed her questions before a good answer could be given. Don't know if Oprah was impatient or just running out of time. My observations only and hopefully there will be other review of this interview. moo mho

ETA: This is unbiased - I took notes during the show so others have an idea as to what took place. My comments are stated as such.
 
Headlines everywhere are that Oprah landed the very first interview with the Discovery Channel hostages. I wonder if the Kyron story will be on first or last?

http://tv.yahoo.com/oprah-winfrey-s...lands-first-interview-with-discovery-hostages

With the missing Lindsey Baum case, Oprah sent her crew to McCleary Washington for interviews. She covers missing child cases when there is time and if she feels any one case can teach her audience something important. Maybe this case is being covered because Kyron went missing from school.

Since Terri and Kaine know who orchestrated the abduction of Kyron, I'm not sure who the appeals will be to tomorrow.

Guess I'm worried that the case will be thrown off track more than it presently is. moo mho



BBM --

Eyes4crime - I'm extremely curious about your statement. Since we only have rumors, thoughts and opinions, what makes you think they "know who orchestrated the abduction"? And by stating Terri and Kaine know, are you saying Kaine knows and isn't saying anything? Do you think Kaine is involved?
 
BBM --

Eyes4crime - I'm extremely curious about your statement. Since we only have rumors, thoughts and opinions, what makes you think they "know who orchestrated the abduction"? And by stating Terri and Kaine know, are you saying Kaine knows and isn't saying anything? Do you think Kaine is involved?

they aren't my statements! They are the statements by Desiree and Kaine, the best that I could interpret. It was a fast moving interview with Oprah changing the questions before one could be answered.

I have no idea what makes them think Terri orchestrated the abduction. Oprah asked that and there was no good answer - or any answer. moo mho
 
Thank you so much for taking the time to recap. I sort of knew it would be short but it sounds like it was REALLY short. :(

The part I snipped is exactly what I had thought (heard locally)!! I would love to know which parts of her story changed or if it's the whole thing. ??

respectfully snipped from your excellent notes:
Oprah: How did she act that made you think of guilt?
Kaine - Actions after failed polygraph - changed story daily - no believable story

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