Irishboy
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IMO its harsh to say the mom "delegated" responsibility. She probably just saw he daughter fitting in, making a friend and having fun where she did not have the means or the knowledge due to cultural differences. IIRC she even tried to have KE invite the son on trips but he declined (not have his focus taken off of AY I guess).
I spent a lot of time at my neighbors family house and on trips because I was friends with and went to school together. My mom did not delegate responsibility. Many situations the friends of a son/daughter become like another family member, this one got out of hand.
By all accounts AY became a real social problem (shouting heard by neighbors, out all night) and the mom tried to reign it in but she was too far gone by them
I spent a lot of time at my neighbors family house and on trips because I was friends with and went to school together. My mom did not delegate responsibility. Many situations the friends of a son/daughter become like another family member, this one got out of hand.
By all accounts AY became a real social problem (shouting heard by neighbors, out all night) and the mom tried to reign it in but she was too far gone by them