Irish_Eyes
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According to this article:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/natio...ore-killings/2012/02/09/gIQA88LF2Q_story.html
Griffin-Hall refers to Elizabeth Griffin-Hall, the social worker who was supervising the visits.
There are plenty of studies that show that children do better with continuing contact with their family of origin, even if they were removed due to proven child abuse. If the well being of the children is worthy of consideration (and I believe it is), then arranging for regular visitation was most likely to be in their own best interests.
Yes, there is a risk that a tragedy like this will happen if there is visitation, even supervised visitation. But the reason why tragedies like this make headlines is because they are so rare. For every Charlie and Braden, there are tens of thousands of children in foster care that benefit from having regular contact with their parents.
I'm not exaggerating, btw. In 2009, there were approximately 423,773 children in foster care:
http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/factsheets/foster.pdf#page=3
There is always a trade off in considering acceptable risk. The example I look at is traffic fatalities. In 2009 33,808 people died in traffic accidents. Anyone who is willing to get into a motor vehicle is tacitly saying that this is an acceptable level of risk.
So, yeah, if I had been the judge in this case, I would have ordered supervised visitation as well because it was most likely to be in Charlie and Baden's best interests to visit their father.
Thanks for your perspective on this. I think it's good that we're all having this discussion.
Some points I would offer:
I haven't studied much about children in foster care, but it makes sense that they would have benefits from continuing relationships with their family of origin/primary attachment figures when they can do so safely. However, Braden and Charlie were not being faced with the prospect of traditional foster placement...they had the closest thing they could have to continuing contact with Susan through their relationship with the Cox family. If there were any benefits to their continuing contact with JP, clearly, there were also terrible consequences.
I struggle so much with WHY JP was allowed to take those visits to his home. He was a person of interest in the death of his wife! And unlike criminal courts, the standard of evidence in family court is not "beyond a reasonable doubt", but by a "preponderance of the evidence." That means that, weighing all known factors, what is most likely in the best interest of the children? I don't see how, with what was known, it could have been deemed in the best interest of the children to move from the supervised center to Josh's home.