OneLostGrl
I'm going against the grain- I'm going sane
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Cindy was the one who finally reported Caylee missing. IIRC George was heard saying in the background "You already called?" This would indicate he would not have already called if it had been left up to him. He went to work after driving a smelly car home from the impound lot just the same as CA did. They both were in denial.
How come everyone, the majority of us women, are so hard on CA?
She may be trying to control her world because it was spinning out of control. Did she make George gamble away their (her) money? STRESS. Did she make George log on to *advertiser censored*? STRESS. Did she make KC pregnant as a teenager? STRESS
Who was the better role model? The parent who held a full time job consistently for many many years or the one who hadn't held down a good paying job over the life of his children practically? Who came home from working all day to look after a little one while facing her 50th B-day? George said himself that he hardly ever had the responsibility of looking after Caylee without either CA or KC being there as well.
Hey if you want to wear the pants in the family then you had better take some responsibility for the family. What the hell?
They are all quilty of something but why so easy on GA and so hard on CA? He's ex LE for God's sake. Has he been making good decisions?
It's been rumored that he is the one with mental illness in his family background so maybe CA's been dealing with those issues too.
KC and Lee wrote "it would be awkward to see him" referring to a Father's day after Caylee had been born. Why?
Someone please explain why CA is to blame whereas GA gets a pass. Please.
Also, what did CA find out several days after KC's arrest that made her change her story and the intensity of her reaction? Why didn't GA seem panicked like CA sounded in her initial 911 calls?
George doesn't get a pass, not from me anyway. The difference (for me) is that George's issues are pretty consistant. He is child-like, allows himself to be controlled by his wife (mother?!) (to me, he is very much like a person who after having been in jail since age 16 re-enters the world at like 30.. They have no clue how to act.. their decisions, their meals, their daily agenda's etc. have been made for them for so long- they end up breaking another law just so they can go back to jail.. it's all they know) he is weak and sad and has wicked low self-esteem.. The man is a shell, like he's been completely sucked dry.. it seems to me that he needs Cindy to make his decisions for him. I think he'd lay down in the road and let the bus run him over if Cindy said that is what she wanted from him.
But on his own? I think he's just a lump who does the same things and acts and reacts the same way every day.. no surprises, no fears of what to expect, just lazy ol' loser dad that they can all make fun of.
Neither parent is "well" IMO, but having a parent who is consistent in their behaviors (even if it's in their denial or neglect) is often the only positive for kids in homes like this. I can't help but wonder what George's issue is/was with his dad (that's pretty extreme, throwing your own father through a window!).