There have been discussions about whether JA was ever TA's girlfriend. Just listened to the Chris Hughes interview on Tricia's True Crime Radio. Chris seems to confirm that at one point in time, JA was TA's girlfriend.
Chris says - "He [Travis] still really likes her [JA] and in fact was right there at the point where he wanted to commit to her. I can't remember if he already had, maybe, you know, the timeline. I can't remember when they were officially boyfriend/girlfriend. But it was about this time."
Listen at 1:13:42 - 1:13:55
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/websle...as-true-crime-radio-sunday-night-8-pm-eastern
BBM -Well if this is during the time period of JA's "stalker" email, then obviously it was before she even moved to Mesa, as were her dates with AA. In fact, how could she claim they were "official" when she didn't even move to Mesa until after her self-proclaimed break up date?
Yes, there are serious online relationships but until you're actually together in person, I don't think anyone can seriously claim "official" status.(heck even McGee and his woman arranged to be close enough to spend time together for 4-5 months before getting married)
For reference recall TA and DR, they at least dated face to face before she left on her mission and although she was obviously disappointed when TA told her he was dating someone else during that 18 month period and they stopped being bf/gf because of it, it was something she was quite able to understand and accept because it had largely been just a long distance relationship(even though they too discussed marriage and I daresay probably much more seriously than TA with JA).
Absence may make the heart grow fonder(which imo is partly why online relationships can get so intense so quickly, especially when added to the anonymity of being able to whisper all your secrets into your keyboard instead of actually face to face) but long distance relationships seldom work out longterm.