Ron Cummings Arrested 2009.08.06 RE: Battery involving brother-in-law #2

[EastCoast]

Thanks to so many people who welcomed me here. Made me feel a part of this community and rally good.

 

[OneLostGrl]

and I try, and i will from time to time, thanks lots

IMO, not often enough

 

[EastCoast]

i have been a long time lurker so i feel i know everyone semi well. thanks for all the new time support

 

[stilettos]

Thanks to so many people who welcomed me here. Made me feel a part of this community and rally good.

Glad you are here East Coast. Stay awhile.

 

[RJA00]

Yes, East Coast, he has a short fuse....that is what is so scary.

How does he change up this behavior with children? Are some going to say he can restrain himself with children but not with adults? You can count on it!

His temper is a problem....and most saw that immediately on Feb 10. The recent arrest just proves our point...he is unpredictable at best.

I can't explain other people and their reasons. I just know they have feelings which are leading them down that path. Some don't let feelings get in the way, others want more than facts, they want to see the more human side and they become filled with passion.

hmm i would have to say yes people can change there behavior around kids

my husband and his family all have tempers its in there blood
I have been around for 20 years and have never seen one lose there temper with a child but i have seen all of them lose there temper with adults

 

[Whisperer]

Does the report for this arrest give the addresses of all the complainants and witnesses?

 

[Nana46]

Welcome East Coast...sending you a big Tennessee welcome:blowkiss:

(back to lurking, hi all)

 

[Shaymus at The Rock]

Ron has to be protected. If this couple lived by themselves, fireworks would explode....Can't have that! It would make RC look bad. The women are there to keep him from himself. He got out of hand the other night and you see he was reeled in.

At every turn, RC is protected. Even when his daughter vanished, his mother was there PRONTO (with the LE) to make sure he didn't say anymore than he did.

Granny is taking over. She is home more than TN...he needs 24/7 watching, IMO.

Where is Ron's mother ? She was such a strong presence and now she is gone.

 

[Whisperer]

For TN living so close, we didn't see her this time. She must be taking a background role since AS is there.

 

[Shaymus at The Rock]

Hello East Coast,

Welcome - it's nice to hear a new voice !

 

[badme102]

hmm i would have to say yes people can change there behavior around kids

my husband and his family all have tempers its in there blood
I have been around for 20 years and have never seen one lose there temper with a child but i have seen all of them lose there temper with adults

I'm glad for your husband, but he's not Ron Cummings. Everyone is different, obviously.

 

[RJA00]

I'm glad for your husband, but he's not Ron Cummings. Everyone is different, obviously.

does anybody here know ron ? has anybody here lived with ron
all we know is what we hear. ron was not wrong defending his wife if they were forcing her to leave against her will.

yes, ron does remind me of my husband in his younger days

 

[stilettos]

does anybody here know ron ? has anybody here lived with ron
all we know is what we hear. ron was not wrong defending his wife if they were forcing her to leave against her will.

yes, ron does remind me of my husband in his younger days

According to the law it is wrong...which is why he was arrested and charged and had such a high bail. When will we hold this man accountable for his law breaking actions and stop making excuses for violence?

 

[kiki the parrot]

I'm glad for your husband, but he's not Ron Cummings. Everyone is different, obviously.

Tempers become an issue not only whenever children become it's object but any time they witness uncontrolled rage; whenever someone they love, or reside with, becomes the object of uncontrolled rage; whenever the violence is causing ongoing disputes or unresolved conflicts w/in a family; any time violence is causing any kind of disruption in their routine and/or homelife; anytime violence results in charges, arrests, court appearances, incarceration and any other periods of absence from the home; if and when those resulting arrests, fines and/or convictions create financial hardships to their families; and to the general stability of the family and a child's own personal sense of wellbeing and security. Those are just a few off the top of my head. Again, presumably even most "hot-tempered" families don't have children missing.

arrot:

 

[RJA00]

According to the law it is wrong...which is why he was arrested and charged and had such a high bail. When will we hold this man accountable for his law breaking actions and stop making excuses for violence?

well if my family ever decide to lose there mind and try and kidnap me i hope to god my husband stops them

so your just supposed to let them go with somebody that forcing them to go

if they were not invited they should of went to jail too jmo
trespassing there is a law about that too

 

[evelyn24]

I hear you. But by the same token, what in the world was Misty "screaming and crying" about to her parents having to do with wanting to leave Ron? Did Ron not fix the right brand of Macaroni and Cheese for dinner? It is not illogical to assume it was something rather serious to result in screaming and crying.

well if my family ever decide to lose there mind and try and kidnap me i hope to god my husband stops them

so your just supposed to let them go with somebody that forcing them to go

if they were not invited they should of went to jail too jmo
trespassing there is a law about that too

They lost their minds and tried to kidnap her? Really?

They just randomly one night at 11PM decided to go over there and kidnap Misty because they "lost their minds?"

Interesting.

Does this family usually do this sort of thing? Have they in the past showed up at Misty and Ron's house uninvited and tried to take her? Is this their normal pattern of behavior?

 

[raeann]

does anybody here know ron ? has anybody here lived with ron
all we know is what we hear. ron was not wrong defending his wife if they were forcing her to leave against her will.

yes, ron does remind me of my husband in his younger days

Once again, no where in the police report, not even in GGM or Ron or Misty's statements does it refer in any way to FORCING her to go with them. She is a rather small girl, if they were of a mind to force her to do something, three adults could have done that in THREE seconds---grab, shove, slam the van door and dash on out of there. The statement that they were "trying" to get her to come with them obviously precludes any force being used.

LOL....as a matter of fact, if good old granny managed to push THREE adults into the van all by her lonesome, I'm pretty sure the 3 Croslin's could have managed to get Misty in if they had decided to do so.

 

[RJA00]

They lost their minds and tried to kidnap her? Really?

They just randomly one night at 11PM decided to go over there and kidnap Misty because they "lost their minds?"

Interesting.

Does this family usually do this sort of thing? Have they in the past showed up at Misty and Ron's house uninvited and tried to take her? Is this their normal pattern of behavior?

I did not say misty family. I say if my family lost there mind
please dont twist my words ty


misty said she did not want to leave, she did not leave when ron was in jail, so i dont think she wanted to leave

they were to told to leave and didnt so they broke the law too, how is that okay.

 

[Tom'sGirl]

Lets keep posts On Topic of this event!

 

[badme102]

I did not say misty family. I say if my family lost there mind
please dont twist my words ty


misty said she did not want to leave, she did not leave when ron was in jail, so i dont think she wanted to leave

they were to told to leave and didnt so they broke the law too, how is that okay.

My bold.
Not according to LE they didn't break any law. If that was the case, they would have been in a jail cell next to Ron all night.
Sorry, not true.
If anyone else decides to pursue other charges for this incident and LE arrests one of them, then we'll talk.