I get that too - which is why I'm feeling bad that I still suspect him. When Jill Meagher disappeared, after her husband Tom faced the media, it was so close to Allison Baden-Clay's murder (Allison in April, Jill in September of the same year) that everybody immediately judged him as guilty - and he wasn't. Though I will admit that watching Tom on the news, I did think "no...he's innocent. His grief is etched in his face - he's doing all he can to find her". I didn't get *that* feeling with Tom that he was guilty. I wish I felt the same way about this hubby. I'm praying I'm wrong and can come back later and go "I was so so wrong".
Then again I also look back at the Azaria Chamberlain case - which was two years before I was born, but my mother told me all about it - she was on the fence, but said that watching Lindy Chamberlain's interviews on the news made her feel like she was guilty. My father (who passed away just after Lindy was cleared, so I don't have his opinion other than what my mother told me he said) was adamant she was guilty based on her demeanour just after the disappearance, and what the news showed of the event. As a teen I was really interested in the case, read the book Evil Angels (didn't see the movie, actually read the book) and it captivated me how harshly she was judged, despite the clear evidence the dingo took the baby, based solely on her demeanour during interviews and court appearances. And yet...here I am doing the exact same thing. So I'm really hoping that I'm reading him wrong.