Just throwing this out there as something that seemed odd to me.
AM makes his living in a business which could potentially create enemies; both from his work as an attorney and as a volunteer at the solicitor’s office. That’s simply the nature of his work. And there are some real lunatics walking among us. Unless it was known immediately who the perpetrators were, then I would think revenge against AM or the family as a whole would have been considered for that reason. (In fact, it does seem that according to the CAD, LE may have taken the initiative to check on BM?, albeit at the wrong address in Hampton)
I know AM’s fear on the scene, or lack thereof, has been discussed.
If I try to put myself in his position (and I understand it’s ridiculous to think that I really could do so), but simply as a parent, if I try..
I don’t think the fear of a shooter still on the scene would have overcome my desire to check on the condition of my son and my spouse.
However, I do think that the GMA interview portion regarding them contacting BM seems odd. RM said that AM couldn’t bring himself to call BM to tell him what happened, so RM did so himself. (i think it’s important that it was specified that the purpose of that phone call was to tell BM that his brother and mom had been killed.)
However, I think that phone call, at least for me, would have come much earlier and for another reason. I think I would not have been able to keep myself from calling my other son, likely right after the 911 call ended. And it would not have been to deliver the terrible news, but to check on his well-being. If 2/3 of my family had just been brutally murdered, my mind would quickly go my other son, his whereabouts and well-being. I would be frantically trying to find out if the other 1/3 of my family was ok.
I also would have used my clout to try to have someone in LE go to BM’s home in Rock Hill and bring him to me. I would not have wanted him to be alone, or to drive. I would be terrified for his safety until he was with me. Especially if there was evidence that the murders at Moselle had occurred recently. I would think there was a possibility the perpetrators may not be finished, that they could be out to murder my remaining son as well, but maybe hadn’t yet. This would cause me to attempt to warn and intervene, bc maybe I could stop something that hadn’t yet been completed.
I know BM is 25 yo. That wouldn’t matter one bit to me. I would at least have to consider that someone was trying to kill the entire family. So, that’s where the lack of fear comes into this for me. Not any lack of fear for AM’s own safety on the crime scene, but a lack of fear for his other son. (Of course, we only know what’s been said. Maybe AM was concerned for him, and RM just didn’t say so.)
If they had reason to believe he was in no danger at all, then ok. But then I also have to consider why did AM felt he himself needed the support and presence of his 2 brothers, but BM received a phone call with life changing/crushing news, and seems to have been expected to drive several hours from Rock Hill with no family there to support him. If I couldn’t pull some strings and get LE to pick up and bring my son to me, I’m quite sure I would have asked one of my brothers to go get him (both for safety reasons and to keep him from driving in the midst of sudden shock and grief.) What a long, anxiety ridden, panicked drive that must have been for BM.
If it tells me anything, it tells me they weren’t afraid for his safety and that possibly his personality type is one that is able to function well in high stress? even drive a considerable distance after hearing such horrible news.
Of course, we also don’t know if he had a SO or friend with him.
All that to say- there is no known evidence BM’s family was concerned for his safety as it related to the incident at Moselle.
AMOO