Annasmom said:
Well, I didn't want you to wait TOO long. I'll let Doogie answer the Craig questions. He made a special trip to look at public records on this, and he doesn't think Craig is involved in any way. I don't live in HMB, am about seven miles north, but I am there very often and do shop, go to the library, dentist, etc. Frankly, I don't know whether I would recognize her today. When the older age-advanced pictures came out, I thought I would not recognize that person. The latest one seemed a little more possible (I put it away and could not look at it for a long time.) Your last question is harder. My subconscious stays below. I believe I would want to recognize her, no matter what. To reinforce this (conscious) opinion, I am thinking of a profoundly handicapped little woman I visited at the local hospital the past six months, until she died. (I was a volunteer translator, and nobody else ever came to see her.) As little as she was able to do or say, her feisty and generous spirit came through, as did her desire for contact and her appreciation that someone was thinking about her. I really believe that, if Anna is alive, she would still be Anna, no matter what roads she has traveled. By the way, I feel as if I know you, Elberethe. Do I?
No, I don't think we have ever met off line. I didn't really know anyone in HMB when I was there other then the gentleman we worked for at the time. I seriously doubt you ran in his circles either
I am a long time Santa Rosa resident and traveled alot with horse racing, but nowadays I'm pretty reclusive and don't really know anyone outside of my college friends. Have my own issues. =P
I do feel a connection to you and Anna, as I'm sure so many other people do. I also felt this same connection with Laci Peterson. It is just something in a persons eyes and smile that draws you in. Anna is so innocent and beautiful and you just see such good in her. As I have said many times, I think anyone would become attached once they know her story. It is only natural.
We do probably have alot of the same type opinions due to our similar age and lifes experiences growing up in this ever-changing, ever-growing area. I will say that I would be honored to count you among my friends. You have a strength and optimism that I lack. You survived and continue to hope .. I honestly don't think I would have in your shoes. I admire what I see in your struggle as someone would who sees qualities they would desire to possess themself. I don't think I'm alone in that. I see alot of genuine affection for you at websleuths.
I agree with you that Anna would still be Anna. I don't think our soul changes that much in a lifetime. I think you would recognize her. I knew my son was a boy from seeing his face on a sonogram even though I was assured I couldn't know from that. As a mother, one just knows some things. I also feel that sometimes our unconcious can do a number on us. If she was stolen by low lifes (only word I can think of to describe this type of person) she
may have had a rough childhood. As a result she could be involved in things you wouldn't approve. Such a thing might hinder a recognition. That was my only thought.
You have done some very generous things in your lifetime. Example, right there your experience with the handicapped woman. Someone in Anna's shoes might not be generous, trusting, hopeful, caring, but instead be hurt, withdrawn, and coping with survival in not so positive ways. Not saying I know, just saying that she may not be easy to recognize if one was looking for what they "expect" her to be. What one dreams of their child becoming.
I hope I don't confuse you with that. I have such a different perspective on things it can be problematic. I don't want you to make too much of my dream, even though it hit me hard. As I said, I have my own issues.
As for Craig, I realize Doogie dismissed him, but I can't do the same. Yet. Something about him doesn't sit right with me. It could be totally unrelated to this case, but he just doesn't feel right. I did find his last name and will work it out on my own. If I need help, I will ask some of the better researchers here. We have such a wealth of experience to draw from. Looking forward to any answers Doogie can provide that might save me some time re-inventing the wheel.
It is probably too early, but have you heard anything promising yet? Has anyone new offered some welcome help? This is so exciting. I am praying so hard we get something from this exposure even if it is just more eyes and ears to help in the search. You did good going out with all those flyers! I would be so worn out! Take care of yourself and reward yourself with a nice long bubble bath. =) :blowkiss: & hugs