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Her taking advantage of all those perks in their relationship is how she used him.
They used each other. But it was consensual. I do not think there was malice involved in that aspect of their relationship. I do think Jodi did some malicious things but as far as the sexual part of their friendship, they used each other. As you say, though, sometimes it's a matter of definition of the term. IOW, some people believe there is always disrespect involved in taking from another in a relationship. There is sometimes, but not always.
Just my take on things...by no means do I mean others must agree.
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I don't think Travis was using Jodi. What he did was consensual. What she did was not.