SIDEBAR #15- Arias/Alexander forum

[lil_buddy]

hand on the pump
[video=youtube;Ec_V5hpZoqI]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ec_V5hpZoqI[/video]

 

[Bernina]

Sooooo.... turns out we were right about the cat abuse huh .. TORTURE!! Squeezed the cat out of anger. I want to see more of this. http://www.azcentral.com/community/...-arias-sidebars-exclusive.html?nclick_check=1

:floorlaugh: If Kweefer's intent was to inflame readers with this video..........bawahahahaha!!!!! It just goes to show you how psycho crazy bat s**t the little she devil CMJA is!!!! Miss "I wouldn't kill a fly, but I'll slap a dog and angrily squeeze a cat" has more secrets for us yet to hear!
I'm having major Juan withdrawals. CMJA's trial may have been so slow (thank you, Team "Killer" Defense and their witnesses) that sticking needles in one's eyes may have provided a happy distraction, but watching the GZ trial has been has been "eh", no fireworks, no gotcha's. There's more "edge" to members' posts than the trial.

Kweefer flops again :rockon:
Can I call him a "dork"? I think he has a bad case of "Juan Envy". :floorlaugh:

 

[YESorNO]

NG is really rude tonight. Glad I'm not watching GZ trial.
(just switching channels as there's nothing on).

 

[YESorNO]

Ohhhhh. Just found The Shining on IFC!!!!!!!!

 

[Harmony 2]

My Doctors wife passed away! She is 58 years old. He has been my Docter since 1988. I feel so sad. Just a week ago my friend passed. Thanks so much for listening..Nore.:cry:

So sorry dear Nore... (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

Oh how I wish I could have you all in my living room watching the Zim/Tray trial. I have so many questions and things I'd love to figure out with you. Why can't Websleuths have a private access forum if they're so concerned about posts? I've discussed high profile or high emotion trials in secluded forums like that and you learn so much about the law and forensics that way. The discussions were always respectful and fact based, and were incredibly informative. Unfortunately those sites are no longer active. Please, Websleuths, won't you consider it?

We do have a private access forum for our members...

 

[Tenaciousdae]

Ohhhhh. Just found The Shining on IFC!!!!!!!!

Did you get your new tv hooked up?! :seeya:

 

[lil_buddy]

You guys should see "Play Misty for Me"!!!!!
1970 stabby, psycho, stalker chick in Monterey, CA.

I saw it last nite.

 

[Tenaciousdae]

You guys should see "Play Misty for Me"!!!!!
1970 stabby, psycho, stalker chick in Monterey, CA.

I saw it last nite.

I haven't seen it in a long time...a lot of peeps were talking about it recently :seeya:

Are you feeling better? :therethere:

 

[Jill-in-NV]

Is Dr. Drew a repeat tonight? I swear I saw this show yesterday! Maybe I am going insane?

 

[banzai]

Banzai- so sorry about your Ex.
I never heard about Dr. Hare until I researched the "bad seed".
I remember arguing with my philosophy professor about people who had no conscience. I didn't want to believe that such people existed and thought these people could be help in some way- that they were just "sick". She told me that there were people born with no conscience. I still didn't believe her.
Thanks for the title of the book by Dr. Hare. I'll look it up. :seeya:

Thank you but, very respectfully, I'm not sorry. There were great times and horrific times. I affirm to my kids that it's OK to remember and cherish the good they remember. Just moving on...and trying hard to prevent continued victimization. (I reject pity - can't afford to let my guard down) hope you understand.

From the family stories I learned of my ex's early childhood years, I believe they are born that way. Unfortunately, his parents always tried to explain away his deviant behaviours as just cute childhood antics until they finally admitted they were negatively impacted. They were angry with him BUT, they cherished their reputation, their standing in society much more, and paid whatever it took to cover up for him even now into his 50's still ::rollseyes:: I can see though, how parents probably try all avenues of discipline to try to reach their child, before even considering consulting with a professional. The cost can be prohibitive and society in general is not very tolerant nor supportive. I know I would never give up trying were it my child but I'm also guilty of holding my children accountable for their actions since their very early years. They blossomed beautifully in case you're wondering :rockon:

I never had interest in psychology and later wished I had! I was so was completely at a loss as to how to "help" him, and I did try again and again and again... We were fortunate, we got out alive.
The universe has a way of giving you what you need when you need it. Hare was such a gift for me
I believe that any human being can get caught by a psychopath as they present themselves as normal, honest and sincere human beings. They twist facts so much that you loose track of the actual purpose or issue or whatever you're discussing, living. They charm the pants off you and the people around you. Then subtly strike but you don't notice until it's too late.
Travis was such a victim, as were his family, friends, and now all the Texas taxpayers and all of us who follow this trial to justice.

Sorry I'm not very articulate...much could be said more concisely. I'm just too exhausted at the end of the day and usually only read or briefly reply.
Thanks for reading this far :blushing:

 

[Hatfield]

Naturalmente, mi amiga.

Selena - Dreaming Of You - YouTube

The movie I saw about Selena was one of the saddest movies but greatest movies I have seen in quite some time. The selfishness of the murderer was beyond comprehension. The same kind of selfishness that JA has.

Her music is wonderful. Thanks for posting this Sleuth. And thanks for the suggestion Yes/No.

 

[banzai]

Sooooo.... turns out we were right about the cat abuse huh .. TORTURE!! Squeezed the cat out of anger. I want to see more of this. http://www.azcentral.com/community/...-arias-sidebars-exclusive.html?nclick_check=1

Dang, I can't view the link :banghead:
Says cookies must be enabled
Except I never disabled them and
have been able to view other azcentral articles.

 

[YESorNO]

 

[lil_buddy]

I haven't seen it in a long time...a lot of peeps were talking about it recently :seeya:

Are you feeling better? :therethere:

yes ty.
i had to run down the list of all the things i complain about that u may have heard...
lol

 

[Jill-in-NV]

Is Dr. Drew a repeat tonight? I swear I saw this show yesterday! Maybe I am going insane?

OK, never mind. I am insane. I think they were just showing a clip from last nights show.

Excuse the ring...

 

[Hatfield]

Thank you but, very respectfully, I'm not sorry. There were great times and horrific times. I affirm to my kids that it's OK to remember and cherish the good they remember. Just moving on...and trying hard to prevent continued victimization. (I reject pity - can't afford to let my guard down) hope you understand.

From the family stories I learned of my ex's early childhood years, I believe they are born that way. Unfortunately, his parents always tried to explain away his deviant behaviours as just cute childhood antics until they finally admitted they were negatively impacted. They were angry with him BUT, they cherished their reputation, their standing in society much more, and paid whatever it took to cover up for him even now into his 50's still ::rollseyes:: I can see though, how parents probably try all avenues of discipline to try to reach their child, before even considering consulting with a professional. The cost can be prohibitive and society in general is not very tolerant nor supportive. I know I would never give up trying were it my child but I'm also guilty of holding my children accountable for their actions since their very early years. They blossomed beautifully in case you're wondering :rockon:

I never had interest in psychology and later wished I had! I was so was completely at a loss as to how to "help" him, and I did try again and again and again... We were fortunate, we got out alive.
The universe has a way of giving you what you need when you need it. Hare was such a gift for me
I believe that any human being can get caught by a psychopath as they present themselves as normal, honest and sincere human beings. They twist facts so much that you loose track of the actual purpose or issue or whatever you're discussing, living. They charm the pants off you and the people around you. Then subtly strike but you don't notice until it's too late.
Travis was such a victim, as were his family, friends, and now all the Texas taxpayers and all of us who follow this trial to justice.

Sorry I'm not very articulate...much could be said more concisely. I'm just too exhausted at the end of the day and usually only read or briefly reply.
Thanks for reading this far :blushing:

Thanks for sharing some of your story. Although very sad and traumatic and painful, I am thankful to you for sharing because it helps me to learn about people such as this and be warned about how they can and do exist among us.

Im not trying to say your situation was exactly like this, but I too had many polite arguments with my SO about people having no concious or no remorse. It is such a very hard thing to accept when it seems impossible for us "normal" people. I was finally convinced a long time ago that people can and do exist with basically no concious. Or a very minimal concious and little or no remorse for things.

It seems there are all kinds of different disorders that may exist amongst us. The poll lists quite a few of them.

I too wish I had taken more elective college courses about physchology just to better learn about human behaviors and the diversity that can exist. It is quite fascinating to me. I did take one course and I think it kind of scared me off of learning more because I was afraid of what I may find out about myself. :floorlaugh:

 

[YESorNO]

Did you get your new tv hooked up?! :seeya:

Evening Tena.

The TV is hooked up, but the sound on low is wonky. I finally found the book that came with the TV. It took me all day :scared: to find it. I have to decipher it now :floorlaugh:. I'm always so afraid I'm going to make things worse if I fiddle with things. Thanks for asking.

(Oh, GAWD-- What does "shockwave has crashed" mean :scared: :scared:.
I'm getting that message on my computer.)

HELP :scared: :scared: Always something!!! :scared:

:stormingmad:

 

[YESorNO]

Dang, I can't view the link :banghead:
Says cookies must be enabled
Except I never disabled them and
have been able to view other azcentral articles.

Don't feel bad banzai. I couldn't view it either- said the same thing to me. :banghead: :stormingmad:

 

[PrincessSezMe]

:floorlaugh: If Kweefer's intent was to inflame readers with this video..........bawahahahaha!!!!! It just goes to show you how psycho crazy bat s**t the little she devil CMJA is!!!! Miss "I wouldn't kill a fly, but I'll slap a dog and angrily squeeze a cat" has more secrets for us yet to hear!
I'm having major Juan withdrawals. CMJA's trial may have been so slow (thank you, Team "Killer" Defense and their witnesses) that sticking needles in one's eyes may have provided a happy distraction, but watching the GZ trial has been has been "eh", no fireworks, no gotcha's. There's more "edge" to members' posts than the trial.
Kweefer flops again :rockon:
Can I call him a "dork"? I think he has a bad case of "Juan Envy". :floorlaugh:

Me too with the Juan withdrawals! And I hear ya on the "edge". It's hard to post there because opinions are so polarized. That's a hard case, and one I swore I wouldn't follow, so I'm not investing the time I did on the CMJA case.

I do love the judge in the GZ case though. She is like a female Belvin Perry. Knows.her.*****. She's one badazz judge. :floorlaugh:

 

[Tenaciousdae]

Im not positive but i think shockwave is a plugin. YesorNo I'm not sure you did anything wrong... Sometimes different plugins installed on your pc work against each other.

It may be as simple as closing your Internet browser and refreshing the page you were viewing. I hope it helps...