Something that keeps bugging me is that SM would have to be about as dumb as a box of rocks to think she could get away with leaving with Kyron without a soul seeing her on such a busy day.
So many parents were there -- she could have been spotted by anyone from a window inside a building, from someone in a parked car, someone coming down the street, someone already outside or just stepping outside as she left...
All it would take would be one person remembering seeing her leave with Kyron to ruin the whole plan. That's just so extremely risky. We've seen crazier things, so I know it's possible, but it doesn't seem likely to me.
hmmmm.....I wonder IF the dr.'s appointment that was coming up could have played a part in the "need" to get rid of Kyron.
Now THAT is a horrible thought.
I have five children ranging in age from newly graduated down to kindergarten and I have NEVER had to fill out any sort of paperwork regarding a child's appointment -- and definitely not BEFORE the fact (a note to the teacher letting him/her know in advance, yes, but never something the teacher had to fill out). Doc/dentists these days now automatically print off a confirmation slip for Mom/Dad to give to the school on the day the child arrives back. Do the schools do things differently there in Oregon? This claim has me stumped.
ETA: I can think of one scenario in which this might happen: if Kyron had a psychological appointment of some sort -- then, perhaps, the teacher's observations and opinions would be requested prior to the initial appointment. That would add a new dynamic IF true (not to say Kyron had ANY psychological issues...but that SM could have been trying to go down 'that' road).
When we had scheduled our son for tested for both ADHD and IQ we were given paperwork before hand for both his teacher and us to fill out. Once he was diagnosed as having ADHD we then had to have to have similar paperwork done once a year for the first few years by the teacher before they would refill his medicine.
When we had scheduled our son for tested for both ADHD and IQ we were given paperwork before hand for both his teacher and us to fill out. Once he was diagnosed as having ADHD we then had to have to have similar paperwork done once a year for the first few years by the teacher before they would refill his medicine.
hmmmm.....I wonder IF the dr.'s appointment that was coming up could have played a part in the "need" to get rid of Kyron.
Precisely. I have two sons on the autistic spectrum (along with being gifted, thus IQ tests in addition) so I know that drill, too . Might have nothing to do with the case, but it's an interesting tidbit.
I think they would put her in this position only with the consent of her and her family, but I can't think of a reason that would be necessary.
This is the only time I can recollect in which questionnaires were used in this fashion.
I have five children ranging in age from newly graduated down to kindergarten and I have NEVER had to fill out any sort of paperwork regarding a child's appointment -- and definitely not BEFORE the fact (a note to the teacher letting him/her know in advance, yes, but never something the teacher had to fill out).
Except that being known to so many at the school, she'd be instantly recognizable, whereas a stranger wouldn't be. I'd be scared to death someone might be peering out a window and wreck any lie I might've cooked up to tell LE, you know? But then, I'm just a chicken in general anyway. :crazy:
I never seen a flyer like that. And if she gave consent why didn't SM give a better picture...maybe one of her and Kyron together.
Using the presseer pictures is really weird for me.
The flyer tells a lot what LE is thinking and SM story is not adding up. I keep thinking that no one seen SM at the school that day.
I'm actually thinking the upcoming end of the school year was what played a part. Kyron would have been home 24/7.
I never seen a flyer like that. And if she gave consent why didn't SM give a better picture...maybe one of her and Kyron together.
We have to send a note to school when we are taking our children out of class early.
Perhaps TH told the teacher it was "today" and then put June 11 on the note, to cover herself.
And, I agree, I would never send it in a week in advance. They don't usually accept them a week in advance. I would send it in the very day that I was taking my child out of school.
what do we really know aboout her (SM)
1. she raised Kyron from infancy.
2. she has some kind of teaching degree.
3.she has a bio child, fairly recently (less than 2yo)
4.she has older bio child that now lives with her parents (odd)
5.seems to have healthy well nurtured relationships.
6.nobody has come forward saying that they know a very different side of her.
all outward appearances of her seem to be a supermom. Involved, lots of loving family photos,....when people try so hard to be perfect on the outside, they are often covering up a monstrous flaw they percieve in themselves. What is her FLAW?? she has to have one. does she swear?, is she a gossip monger?,does she have a superiority complex?, these are the little things that will shine a light on the truth. JMO