Well said. I'm sure they were lumping me in as a Brad supporter. I'm absolutely not a Brad supporter. I find his behavior to be despicable. But I am a supporter of our justice system and the belief in innocence until proven guilty. I swear I'm watching a different trial than a lot of people on this forum.
Tagging on here for no reason what so ever. Your post just reminded me of a conversation my husband & I had last night. I was telling him that many people don't see all these things as pieces of a puzzle, etc. My husband thinks Brad is guilty with a capital G. So my husband asked me 'what is their reasoning?' We talked more than that, but what I'm trying to get to is, one of the things I told my husband some people had problems with is they don't believe Brad would leave the kids home alone while he dumped the body and went to HT. Dh couldn't believe that anyone would be swayed by that. He was flabberghasged 'leaving the kids alone to dump a body' would even come into play. I feel much the same way.
And I'm continually reminded of a neighbor of mine years ago, when we first moved to Raleigh from the Midwest. One of my neighbors, a good friend, but not a really close pal of mine, was very 'southern'. Still referred to the civil war in the present tense. It was a real eye-opener for me. This friend/neighbor was very much interested in what church you went to, which pediatrician and OB you saw, etc. In those days Raleigh was still pretty much a small town flavour, with those born here and the interlopers from up north. Those 'inside the beltliners and inside the beltline wannabies' knew all the right people to *use* for everything from exterminators to doctors. If you wanted to 'fit in' you saw 'their people' for your needs. All this to say, this friend/neighbor of mine had two kids, similar age to mine. At this time, one was a baby and the other went to preschool. This woman would actually call me up in the morning, on occasion, to ask if I'd 'watch her house' while she took the 3 yr. old to preschool, because the baby was still sleeping in the crib and she didn't want to wake her. Now me, I'd never be able to do something like that, ever. Long before the age of car seats and child restraints, one time, in the absolute COLD of the midwest, I needed to run inside a store, quickly, and had my infant in one of those old-fashioned car beds, fast asleep. I would have been able to see her from inside the store. And this was the real 'olden days' long before any word of child abductions and such. People left their keys in their cars in those days, even left the car running while inside when the weather was 20 below. :crazy:
Well, I checked my baby, saw she was fast asleep, I was no more than 20 ft. from the door I needed to run into, I locked up the car, got to the door, and couldn't do it.
I had to go back to my car, unlock it, haul the sleeping baby from the carbed, wake her up and drag her inside the store for my less than 5 minute transaction, where I could see my car through the big store front windows the whole time. All this to say, I just couldn't believe my neighbor would leave a baby home alone for the approx 20 to 30 minute round trip to preschool to drop her other kid off. So this leaving the kids home while dumping my dead wife just doesn't cause alarms to go off in my head. :waitasec: