CARIIS
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I personally have not been accused of anything untrue (other than minor household issues that are no biggie. I did not leave the cap off the milk container!).
But, I am close to someone who was accused of something at work (not sex related) that was completely and utterly false. Everyone knew it was false, but the process needed to take place once an allegation was made. There was an investigation and the accusations were dismissed (and the accuser was actually fired). What I witnessed was how the falsely accused person reacted. The reaction was professional, calm, controlled, patient. The accused was innocent and behaved with that knowledge. I witnessed no lashing out (at least in public; can't speak to private behavior), no yelling, no tantrums. I witnessed a reaction from someone who is centered, grounded, mature. It's entirely possible to be angry and not act like a spoiled child.
And, yes, I agree that being falsely accused changes a person. I witnessed that as well. It's horrible to be falsely accused.
jmo
are you certain about the milk??
Might it have been a mustard top?
Are you making this up as a protest against the milk producers?
Can you explain why someone wrote a book about you called "The absent minded milk consumer"
Can you explain why many friends have reported that you frequently left caps of any kind on their counter while you were a guest?
WHy does your yearbook have more than one reference to the caps on bottled substances?
Can you explain why you don't want witnesses the night you left off the cap to share their memories?
Can you explain why several of your good friends have bottle caps in their shorts pockets?
Can you explain your behaviors , that resembled a temper tantrum yesterday when discussing bottle caps?