I agree he is a bit old looking in his face for 53, but his body appears fit with a lot of arm and upper body strength. JMOHe looks old for his age. Wonder if any drug/alcohol abuse involved. Moo
I agree he is a bit old looking in his face for 53, but his body appears fit with a lot of arm and upper body strength. JMOHe looks old for his age. Wonder if any drug/alcohol abuse involved. Moo
Yep. I think he was a narcissist who had trouble getting along with people, creating conflicts around him all his life. It got worse as he got older. Add to that, financial troubles.
Just caught up on this tragic, all-too-common story. Like everyone I wish the neighbor had called in but I wanted to offer a perspective, especially now that we know that BS had a dispute with his former employers, punched Suzanne in front of their minor child. At my last home, there was a neighbor behind us who would stand on his back porch and RAGE over the phone at his girlfriend/ex, bill collectors, etc. If he saw us in our backyard he would scream "what are you looking at." We were extremely frightened of him and even more so because he seemed to sense when we were there. The way that BS's neighbor was so clearly concerned, waiting up, going out with a flashlight, noting BS's movements. Not excusing this in any way but maybe the neighbor hesitated to put himself into BS's focus because he was frightened himself - BS sounds long-term unhinged. Maybe this fight wasn't totally unusual (BS's daughter is convinced her dad hurt her mom - and she doesn't live in the home). I'm sure the neighbor will have a long way to go to forgive himself and I do want to acknowledge that without the neighbor's information LE would be much further behind.Hard to believe we are even having this discussion. Anyone remember the case from Flagstaff earlier this summer, her name is escaping me at the moment. A neighbor saw her husband on top of her in the backyard assaulting her, never called LE - but later told them what they saw and heard.
Matter of fact, this case is very similar to the one I mentioned
It's awful to be the neighbor who hears domestic fighting.Just caught up on this tragic, all-too-common story. Like everyone I wish the neighbor had called in but I wanted to offer a perspective, especially now that we know that he had a dispute with his former employers, punched Suzanne in front of their minor child. At my last home, there was a neighbor behind us who would stand on his back porch and RAGE over the phone at his girlfriend/ex, bill collectors, etc. If he saw us in our backyard he would scream "what are you looking at." We were extremely frightened of him and even more so because he seemed to sense when we were there. The way the BS's neighbor was so clearly concerned, waiting up, going out with a flashlight, noting BS's movements. Not excusing this in any way but maybe the neighbor hesitated to put himself into BS's focus because he was frightened himself - BS sounds long-term unhinged. Maybe this fight wasn't totally unusual (BS's daughter is convinced her dad hurt her mom - and she doesn't live in the home). I'm sure the neighbor will have a long way to go to forgive himself and I do want to acknowledge that without the neighbor's information LE would be much further behind.
Just caught up on this tragic, all-too-common story. Like everyone I wish the neighbor had called in but I wanted to offer a perspective, especially now that we know that he had a dispute with his former employers, punched Suzanne in front of their minor child. At my last home, there was a neighbor behind us who would stand on his back porch and RAGE over the phone at his girlfriend/ex, bill collectors, etc. If he saw us in our backyard he would scream "what are you looking at." We were extremely frightened of him and even more so because he seemed to sense when we were there. The way the BS's neighbor was so clearly concerned, waiting up, going out with a flashlight, noting BS's movements. Not excusing this in any way but maybe the neighbor hesitated to put himself into BS's focus because he was frightened himself - BS sounds long-term unhinged. Maybe this fight wasn't totally unusual (BS's daughter is convinced her dad hurt her mom - and she doesn't live in the home). I'm sure the neighbor will have a long way to go to forgive himself and I do want to acknowledge that without the neighbor's information LE would be much further behind.
ha, in fact, I'm 56! And actually, I thought if I didn't know he was a murder suspect, I'd say he's a good-lookin' guy! Sadly, all I can see is ugly now.I’m thinking you may be a lot younger than 53 , because 53 is not that old and he looks a lot older than that.
This couple reminds me of Suzanne and Barry in Colorado.ha, in fact, I'm 56! And actually, I thought if I didn't know he was a murder suspect, I'd say he's a good-lookin' guy! Sadly, all I can see is ugly now.
I really don’t see how it’s a tough call. A screaming woman that you can see is involved in a physical altercation. You call 911 and let them handle it.IMO, being in the neighbor's shoes, is a tough call either way. In hindsight, we all wish they would have called.