ITA Ocean. I have been with my partner for over 16 years (the one I playfully refer to as the Boy Toy because he's 12 years younger than I am :woohoo
and during the course of our relationship, there have been numerous females smitten with him and a few who tried to lasso him. I don't blame them completely, though - he is a cutie. Most of the time I've laughed it off, cuz I know he likes my home cookin' better than take-out lol.
Ultimately, everyone has a choice & everyone in relationship is faced with the crossroads of decision. It goes without saying that long-term relationships are tough. In the beginning, lust is often confused for love. Ah - the endorphins! Ya gotta love 'em!
Commitment is an agreement between two people. It only works if both parties (not one or the other) take it seriously - simultaneously, despite the waxing & waning of the delirious effects of the hormones of wanderlust.
I admire elderly couples who have weathered the storms of a lifetime commitment. They have learned to cultivate a partnership based on companionship, trust, forgiveness of faults & foibles, willingness to recognize & correct their own shortcomings to the best of their ability, admiration of the good in one another, and respect for one another. Not to mention that humility & a good sense of humor goes a long long way!
And I agree with the opinion that no one can "steal" a spouse or partner.
Husbands & wives are not inanimate objects laying about on the foyer table next to the pocket-change bowl.