MsArk
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It's just a sad and innocent image for me. I don't know why.
Very childlike. Agree.
It's just a sad and innocent image for me. I don't know why.
Personally, I find sharing the detail about Cialis distasteful. We already know ET was assaulted. Sharing the detail feels exploitative, especially knowing ET's sister is on these threads. ET has been exploited enough. We can make the connection in our own minds about what the last month has been like for her without sensationalizing the details. My opinion only. I'm sure I'm in the minority on this.
I hope ET is able to return home with the privacy and care she so desperately deserves. Hopefully Elizabeth Smart can be a shoulder for her privately as she heals from the mental mind games played on her.
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I totally agree that they should receive the award.....however, I also believe that the brave 12 year old girl, who tried her best to prevent this from ever happening in the first place, should get a good portion of that money placed into a college fund for her future use!
OMG LOADED handguns!!!
I am way behind on reading so I hope others have not answered this again and again. I have been a rape/sexual abuse counselor and sat in the room with many people who consented to do this exam. Even with full consent, the forensic rape exam is traumatic. It is invasive--vaginally, anally, and/or orally. The full body is scanned. Blood may be drawn to test for presence of drugs. There is a combing for public hairs. They are looking for any and all evidence. If there is bruising, the bruises are measured and/or photographed. The survivor is photographed. Camera with a photo capability takes internal photos of any genital injuries. All clothing is collected and bagged. Plan B may be given. STD medications are given prophylactically. HIV follow-ups would be done. Each of the medications are described with side effects and benefits. This process can take up to four hours.
I have been with survivors who just sob the whole time even though they are consenting. It is really a re-traumatizing even though it is a necessary process.
They may actually sedate a younger child to avoid further re-tauma.
The nurses and doctors I have worked with have always been kind, gentle, and professional but this is a devastating process for them as well.
My understanding is that she would need to consent. Even if her family consented and she refused, she might not have one done.
It's just a sad and innocent image for me. I don't know why.
BBMPersonally, I find sharing the detail about Cialis distasteful. We already know ET was assaulted. Sharing the detail feels exploitative, especially knowing ET's sister is on these threads. ET has been exploited enough. We can make the connection in our own minds about what the last month has been like for her without sensationalizing the details. My opinion only. I'm sure I'm in the minority on this.
I hope ET is able to return home with the privacy and care she so desperately deserves. Hopefully Elizabeth Smart can be a shoulder for her privately as she heals from the mental mind games played on her.
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http://wkrn.com/2017/04/20/nissan-rogue-used-by-tad-cummins-found-in-northern-california/
Thomas appeared to be in good health at the time of the rescue. She will receive any care that she may possibly need.
Two loaded handguns were found in the cabin, along with other personal items belonging both to Cummins and Thomas. A couple stolen license plates were also found.
Just to play devil's advocate here...when I read her comment I assumed it meant she knew him well enough to think he wouldn't kill her - that's all. She used the word "safe" because that's the word that LE and media used. Just another perspective, and I'm willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. I think she was just as relieved as everyone else that authorities reported her "safe" and was commenting from that perspective, not that she was minimizing the effect this will have on the child.
BBM
I'm with you on this and have already posted this about another item being discussed. I like to put myself in ET's or her family's shoes and not dissect these details that she may later read. She has no need to feel ashamed, but to have extremely private details discussed here could be embarrassing for her and just bugs me. Must be an age thing and it's not my call.
JMO
I agree, he was slowly venturing that way.I was thinking they were going to go to Alaska, but since he was looking for work it seems like he wanted to settle there. IMO
I sure hope ET never reads this thread. Enough discussion of gel already! Let's give her privacy and dignity...please.
Hmm, would Black Bear even allow them there? I wonder...Barry said on Thursday that Cummins and Elizabeth showed up Tuesday. He agreed to help them after Cummins told him they had lost everything in a fire in Colorado and needed a place to stay.
Elizabeth gave Barry a different name, but otherwise didnt talk, Barry said. Cummins did all the talking and said they had been at the Black Bear Ranch commune, but left because they didnt like it there, according to Barry.
No way will he get bail.
Collecting fossils, rocks, and minerals is a hobby for me. Perhaps that's why I don't see the image in the same way. But I can definitely see how a person could perceive it in a different way than I do.
What would you like to discuss? I mean is this a sexually motivated crime or is it something else?
THIS! For heaven's sake, we all know the possible implications, no need for pages upon pages of debate over all the possible uses for KY Jelly. Please.
I haven't seen it, but I wish they'd shut it down.
Unbelievable...The woman is an elected official in the state of TN, anyone who is an eligible voter in TN should contact this woman and let her know exactly how offensive her comment is.
Here's a bit more information about the woman.
Sheila Keckler Butt is an American politician from Columbia, Tennessee.[2][3] Butt is currently the Republican Majority Floor Leader of the Tennessee House of Representatives and she represents House District 64, encompassing the cities of Columbia, Mount Pleasant, and Spring Hill in parts of Maury County.
I apologize if this has already been said, I'm just now catching up on the story and that comment was too offensive to pass over. I'm fuming
These statements that subtly support this man are absolutely ridiculous. He is an adult and was a teacher. If he felt that she needed help he had numerous other avenues that he could have pursued.
TC became verbally judgemental of the lifestyle of the commune members and was asked to leave. Ha ha, wow.
Of course there will be discussion of these items in the trial. That's hard enough, but expected. I just hope she doesn't ever read a thread like this with people discussing how it was or wasn't used. It just seems intrusive and unkind to me. But I guess that's just me. Carry on.
I don't think it's that cut and dry. If that was all they had they would have waited to see what other evidence they could collect before bringing the charges. IMO
Sorry guys, I just got to say this....
I cannot imagine a man being such a pervert that he has to go out and buy Cialis in order for "things to work." I mean why wouldn't he know he has these urges and has enough self control to NOT buy Cialis. I just don't get it.....
Also, HLN was saying TC had represented ET and him as married. HLN is now saying that they were emotionally close. They are saying he had ET wrapped around his finger.
One more thing, I have a sneaking suspicion that JC takes TC back.
Oh heck yea, the creeper is in the pokey and Elizabeth is safe.
Kudos Northern California and TBI for working together to bring her home safe.
Sharpen your 3 inch pencils, <modsnip - term not allowed here>, your going to need em for a long, long, long time, and your glad this is over? Pleassse spare me, you got caught with your hands and feet in the cookie jar, and your wings have been clipped.
Guess he just got fired from the CIA and FBI and he will probably try and use his monopoly money to pay for his defense. teeheehee
How many mentioned they could be at a Commune? Never underestimate a Websleuther! :loveyou:
Sorry guys, I just got to say this....
I cannot imagine a man being such a pervert that he has to go out and buy Cialis in order for "things to work." I mean why wouldn't he know he has these urges and has enough self control to NOT buy Cialis. I just don't get it.....
Also, HLN was saying TC had represented ET and him as married. HLN is now saying that they were emotionally close. They are saying he had ET wrapped around his finger.
One more thing, I have a sneaking suspicion that JC takes TC back.