ITA.!!! It is fascinating and horrifying at the same time.
(And, very nice analogy with the chocolate, LotusPawprint! I LOVE it.:floorlaugh
It makes me wonder about the
reason I find the armchair psychology lessons being conducted on this site so intriguing. I almost feel a certain
desperation inside myself to be able to
figure out a way to pigeon-hole JA into SOME kind of DSM category (please!) because the fact that I have NOT been able to do so... well, it SCARES the he// out of me. :O
If I cannot find a way that "explains" her behavior in a way that makes some logical sense to me (even if it IS contrived and convoluted) it opens up the door in my mind to possibly having to ADMIT that "true evil" MAY EXIST in the universe, and frankly, I do NOT WANT to believe that. So, I guess that may be why I keep looking for some sort of explanation???
lease:
A quote by Marie Curie comes to my mind: **Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.**
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What are we to DO when we encounter situations like this horrible tragedy?:banghead:
IMO it is obvious individuals MUST be held ACCOUNTABLE for their actions.
But,
beyond all of that, how do we, as a culture,
use what we
learn from bearing witness to such horror, to somehow
prevent such a thing from happening again in the future? :banghead:
Indeed,
how do we prevent it from happening all
around us, for that matter, as it
seems to be
doing if one notices all the other trials and crimes being discussed on this site in addition to this single trial?:banghead:
lease:For me, what is
scariest is that without being able to
understand JA, it means that: "but, for the grace of a higher power go I."
Whether
that , then, means being JA, or being TA, or being TA's sister, or being JA's mother, to me, it is ALL VERY SCARY!!!
lease:
lease:
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(As an side, if I had to choose, it seems it might be less scary to be TA than to be JA's mother, iykwim? At least HIS suffering is over.{At least I hope so. MOO and all that} How does one come to terms with having brought JA into the world? It's so much easier to simply label JA as a non-human monster, but how does that help her human mother cope? kwim? Makes me glad I haven't children, tell you THAT much. But if everyone were like me, we'd have died out as a species a long time ago.)
If only I could figure out
why...
lease:
...maybe, then, this whole discussion site would be ever so much easier to move
away from, and
maybe I could get some
stuff done.:fence:
I'm a little obsessive, myself, you may have noticed.:floorlaugh: Or not. Okay. Going to crawl back under my rock now.:twocents:
I think I may have an armchair as well as a couch under there somewhere...