Her drive back from Las Vegas . ..her wanting to spend time with TA . . . important when they got together - mood is he is tender, sweet, loving, really good close sexual experience - tender experience .. .bonding part of relationship . . .sex is powerful emotion -powerful pull in relationship - sex is tender people feel good.
sweet and tender because relationship comin to end . . . TA wants relations with women named Mimi . . . JA happy for him - she feels she has unconditional love for him - further evidence of her moving on? . . .seems to be - she is able to let go a bit - he could be happy and feel good in another relationship.
spontaneous trip to Las Vegas instead of spending time @pizza place?.. . she cancelled or rescheduled . . . .objection - sustained.
pg 771 . . .
JA excited about meeting Sam Schultz - Vegas trip . . . TA wants her to come back a day early and she doesn't . . .she stays extra time despite TA wants her tocome back = she is setting limit - doing what she wants to do . . . a little steel in her backbone - setting boundaries . . . . vs. diamond backs game on TA's birthday where she has friend drive her all the wayback . . . .important she is able to say no and further breaking away from him . . . starting to be able to pull away and interestedin someone else.
TA interested in Mimi - talk often about wanting TA to be happy - build a relationship with Mimi and JA doesn't want to be the person to get in the way . . . no seeds of jealousy coming from JA . . . .unconditional love for TA . . . . she also does not talk about jealousy . . . not in text messages or IM's or communication that ALV has reviewed.
end Feb .2008 . . . she is still in Mesa . . . 2/29/07 - review communications between JA and TA . . . TA gets choked up about JA wanting him to be happy . . . he is touched . . . .TA talks about he has had more memorable experiences with JA than anyone else in his life - they will be immortalized forever - relationship special .. . JA will feel special by having this attention . . . he says these things as JA is pulling more and more away from him.
