YES. My stalker called my boss. He threatened me with that before he did it. He called and said "Have a nice day" -- so when I reported it to the police, they didn't write a report because there was no threat. I was physically ill.
I did not call the police about my stalker. I thought I could manage the situation. Looking back, I realize how foolish I was.
My husband had been posted to Turkey, and I had orders to England 5 months later. During that 5 months I was alone with our children. This is when this man I worked with made his move.
At first, I wasn't too worried, but then he started calling me at 3 a.m. and asking me to meet him at odd hours in secluded places. That's when I became terrified.
I refused to meet him anywhere alone, but was scared he'd try and get to me in my home. He never went beyond calling and asking me to meet him, but he would corner me at work, and tell me his strange dreams and feelings about me.
I made it through safely, getting to UK, and about a year after I was there, he called me at my post. My eyes were darting everywhere, like I expected him to jump out and say, "BOO!"
I never saw or heard from him again, but I looked over my shoulder for a very long time.
