katydid23
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The tweet was referred to in the first part of this thread, and again in an article I read online. Most people don't go on the offensive at the sound of a washing machine but he apparently does, according to his tweet. That suggest to me that OP thinks differently to me, so I can accept the possibility that his reactions upon hearing a noise in the bathroom during the night might differ to mine. My circumstances are also different.
Look, a lot of OP's behaviour doesn't make sense to me either if I try to understand it within the context of the way that I think and behave. However, with the information that I am reading and hearing about the way that OP behaves (which I guess reflects his thinking processes), then some of his account of that night could make sense. Maybe he left the window open because it would be difficult to access the balcony by climbing up the outside wall, maybe he locked the bedroom door because he believed that burglars would be more likely to enter by the ground floor so that made sense to him....even if it doesn't make sense to us. The point I am making is that just because it's not what I would do, or what you would do doesn't in itself necessarily mean that he's lying. There seems to be some evidence to suggest that he is reckless with firearms and gung-ho, a bit arrogant and aggressive, and possibly a bit paranoid....in that context his behaviour doesn't seem totally unbelievable to me.
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I agree about that description. And if that is all true, then he deserves some jail time, for negligent manslaughter at least, imo.
But those same attributes: recklessness, aggressiveness, gung-ho impulsivity, arrogance, paranoia, ADDED to a rabid case of jealousy mixed with firearms, also make the state's case seem believable.
Even when my husband gets very angry, and we bicker, I never imagine he is going to shoot through a locked door at me in a fit of rage. But those attributes you listed above might make OP more likely to do just that in a jealous rage.