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This is incorrect. They'd both originally made other plans and weren't going to spend the evening together. I always felt that OP couldn't have cared less whether or not she stayed. "The athlete told her: "Stay tonight if you like."
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/mar/25/oscar-pistorius-trial-prosecution-rests
Perhaps you should take a look at the timeline of Whatsapp messages and phone calls before stating incorrectly that posters are wrong about something.
It's rather obvious that Reeva did NOT want to stay at Oscar's and that Oscar insisted that she stay.
12:12:05 –
Whatsapp
REEVA : "
Baba I hope u don’t mind but I came back to the house to work a bit and do some washing. It will help me a lot to get stuff done and relieve some stress. I’ll go through to Jhb at like 3 "
Reeva was stressed and had to get some work done (perhaps her speech). Being alone without distractions was her intended goal to get ‘stuff done’. Reeva tells Oscar her plan :
leave around 3PM and return home to Joburg.
Although Reeva’s message reads like she is already at Oscar’s house, she is NOT. From the detailed billing info,
Reeva arrived at Silverwoods between 12:45 and 13:02:52
13:02:52 –
Oscar calls Reeva (4 m. 1 s.) – he whines about the ‘$h!tty thing’ that happened to him. Conversation until
13:06:53
About 4 minutes after that conversation Reeva sends Oscar this message
13:10:48 –
Whatsapp
REEVA : "
It’s a difficult thing to try to console you baba because it’s a $h!tty thing and you’re a nice guy. I guess these things happen and we can just hope they work out for the best. You are an amazing person with so many blessings and you are more than cared for. Your health and future monetary blessings far outweigh this hurdle I can promise you that "
13:40:54 – RS 5353 – Silverlakes tower – GPRS (2 h. 2 m. 20 s.) – Uninterrupted until 15:43:14 – Reeva initiates the Personal Hotspot on her phone
15:21:40 –
Whatsapp – Reply to the 13:10:48 message from Reeva
OSCAR : "
Thank you so much my angel. you don’t have to my angel. Stay tonight if you would like. "
15:21:52 –
Whatsapp
OSCAR : "
I’m just finishing off at Ryan "
Although Reeva has already stated that she will be going home to Joburg at 3PM and it’s now 20 minutes past 3PM, Oscar hints that she could stay the night at his house.
15:23:09 –
Whatsapp
REEVA : "
Thank you baba. Let me know if you’d like to spend time with M or Carl. I’m sure you maybe feel like some family tonight. "
Not wanting to tell him ‘No’, Reeva diplomatically suggests that Oscar should seek comfort and consolation from family members (Aimee or Carl). Reeva obviously gets that Oscar would like her to stay but she can’t accommodate him tonight.
15:41:54 –
Oscar calls Reeva (1 m. 33 s.) – Conversation until
15:43:27
One can clearly infer the subject of this conversation from Reeva’s Whatsapp message that follows in
2.5 minutes at 15:46:10. Oscar is being insistent about having Reeva spend the evening with him.
15:43:14 – RS 5353 – Silverlakes tower – GPRS – Reeva terminates the Personal Hotspot on her phone
15:46:10 –
Whatsapp
REEVA : "
Angel I’m going to go home at like 6. Please stay and do whatever it was you were gonna do "
Reeva re-conveys her firm intent to go home to Joburg and pleads with Oscar for him to forget her for tonight.
Her tone reads like a loving but exasperated mother that has to deny her son something he wants right away.
Reeva has to give a speech the very next morning in Joburg. The drive from Silverwoods to Joburg is a 1-hour drive without traffic. Driving in the evening, Reeva would be going in the opposite direction of weekday rush-hour traffic. In the morning, Reeva would be going in the same direction of weekday rush-hour traffic.
15:54:27 –
Oscar calls Reeva (1 m. 53 s.) –
8 minutes after Reeva reaffirmed that she did not want to stay. Oscar insist again and manages to convince Reeva to stay that evening.