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Start at the first. It broke on the news, it was a horrible tragic thing that happen to this sweet boy. Emotion grabber Headline news. All the media that happened then... Fast forward to the PC Hearing that at was live streamed. I watched the PC Hearing and the ones after that. I had not read articles prior. But after watching the live streamed hearings, that is why so many people have hate for this man. Yes he did disgusting things online with people already online looking for the same thing he was and they hooked up. Same with the prostitute. What she did was against the law and was caught in a sting.. she not charged with anything and yet she was on probation, had pot, and took the $ from a cop.
Everyone HATES this Defendant, the media has spread so many false things ... which not just the MSM doing their normal twist of information, but the LEO who are doing the investigation and the State who are prosecuting it. Then they go to start trial and after a hard battle yet won, get the Judge to agree on a change of venue. So now have the trial going and State witness upon witness testimony is impeached! Flipping Supervisors flap out not telling truths writing reports a year later, LEO doing the same. Lead Det doesn't recall anything, evidence tampered with. Over half a dozen women paraded through and people are angry with the DEFENSE for humiliating them. (not my words). Yet no evidence from anyone that RH didn't love his son very much. None of those ladies testified to that. Even the prostitute said that. Everything that was obtained was tainted and now the public finds out that these inflammatory things said were not factual.
RH never has said he didn't leave his child in his car. Defense is not claiming that. What has everyone so riled up comes from the beginning when live stream hearings with lies was spread from sea to shining sea. The disgust from all the messages on chats, the State has used to try to say that is why RH murdered his son. Its all twisted and wrong. I do not think the sexting has a dang thing to do with RH leaving that child in the car. (nothing through the day, he had already left him their that morning) I have formed my opening from watching the trial. I still trying to keep an open mind.. its real hard now. But I will try. Maybe the State has a big gotcha at Rebuttal.
JMHO But sadly, all the reasons people hate this man is because of the flipping investigation and lies in the beginning. Its because of reading posts here I say that and believe it. I don't know the man anymore than anyone else posting here. I don't try to justify his sexting, I personally think disgusting but there are people who do it and it was legal (other than the minors-yet again they only know about them from the false statements to get the search warrant to begin with). Someone on other thread called this a witch hunt. I think now that that is appropriate description of what it has been. From testimony and evidence presented in this trial/and out of jury presence. Unbelievable.
It's interesting to hear your thoughts on this case. As you know, I have followed this case from day 1. I was drawn in for two main reasons: 1) Cooper's day care was located at my old place of employment, and 2) it is a hot car death. I have always been fascinated with how the courts handle hot car deaths. On the one hand, I cannot comprehend punishing the act of forgetting, but on the other hand, it's a parent's job to care for a child. Sorting through the facts in cases like this is an interesting endeavor, and I simply can't get enough.
Immediately prior to the case starting, I thought that Ross was an unsavory person who liked to get his jollies with random women on the internet. While I did not condone his behavior, I believed that his extra martial activities made him a bad husband. I in no way believed that it made Ross guilty of murder. With respect to his criminal responsibility for Cooper's death, I believed that the actual text messages would firmly establish criminal negligence.
Now that the State has rested I am surprised by how little my opinion has changed. I still believe that Ross's obsessive texting habits rendered him unable to properly care for Cooper, and as a result, Cooper is dead. In that respect, his texts had everything to do with Cooper's death. While the DT still needs to present its case, I would have no trouble finding Ross guilty of felony murder at this point in time.
However, the case did shock me in one way that I was not anticipating. I wasn't expecting Ross's sexting habits to move me as much as they did. I honestly find his propensity for minor and vulnerable, barely legal girls alarming. I had no idea he was attempting to court one high schooler and seemingly had no problem picking up another girl from her dorm room. He met another girl at his apartment for a quickie on his couch, and he received a BJ in the back seat of his car. IMO these are not the actions of a man who was simply unfaithful to his wife. This is a person who struggles with a real sex addition. It casts an extremely gray cloud over Ross. I know that I am not verbalizing this very well, but Ross's actions seemed to indicate that he was in a dark, downward spiral.
For me, the evidence portrayed during the trial is what caused my to find Ross so unlikable and quite frankly a threat to society. Before this trial I could not understand why Ross was denied bond, but after hearing all of the State's evidence, I believe it was the right decision.
As for the witch hunt part, I don't subscribe to that theory. Confirmation bias? Absolutely. Conspiracy theory? No. Putting aside all of the LE's testimony there is still plenty of evidence to show that Ross was negligent (his texting habits, his short drive from CFA to the TH, Cooper's proximity to Ross in the SUV, Ross's weird route to the movie theater, Ross/Winston claiming Ross was going to be late to a 5:00 movie at 3:45, and so on). I am still extremely bothered by this afternoon's ruling.