I teach in an urban school, and have taught in International Schools. Black, Hispanic, White, 'Foreign' ....doesn't really matter. Although our culture IS diverse...there is a certain openess that few cultures contain. Yes, there are those who do not have it...but they still have more than most. I have been a lover of culture since I was 7 and have studied it endlessly since and have sought out hundreds of PenPals and foreign friends..and traveled all over the world. I'm a bit of an intellectual freak on that point, but feel it truly is something to be proud of.
I don't see ANY culture as negative or positive at this point....it just is what it is. I don't know why Americans are so opposed to fitting into a reasonable stereotype.
We are friendly. Those of us that choose to travel outside our borders are usually open-minded. We wear comfortable shoes, and if we don't, we wear a smile in place of those shoes. We are open about our feelings and thoughts and we embrace people that we intuitivily trust. I wouldn't have it any other way....
Your post about openmindedness reminded we about something I always loved about Istanbul.
When I first moved there, I was sure that the women who wore headscarves would look down on me because I was somehow unchaste for not wearing one. But one evening I was trying to get back to where I lived, I had to take a bus along the seaside road (along the Bosphorous away from the touristy areas) and I couldn't figure out which bus I was suppose to get on, as they are all numbered. A women with a head scarf noticed me looking confused, and inTurkish asked me where I was going. I didn't know much Turkish yet but I could manage with body language and hand gestures to understand what she was asking. I told her. She was going to the same place.
She immediately acted so maternal and sweet to me and had me sit next to her on the bus and just smiled at me and patted my hand. There was no sign she looked down on me. She was kind and sweet and helpful.
During my time there I noticed that in groups of teenagers some girls heads would be covered, some wouldn't, but they were all mixed, all hanging out together, no judgements.
As I learned more about the culture and more about Islam, I understood that in Islam your relationship with god is between you and him, and no one else has the right to judge it. Headscarf or no headscarf manner of dress held no judgement as to what type of person an individual was.
I think in America we put a lot of emphasis on how people look, and judge their character on that. But in Turkey I didn't find the judgements on someone based on appearance to be nearly us harsh or important.
I just wanted to share this with you guys, because it is a little lesson from Turkish culture that I think is quite beautiful.