I just know that in the drug world and I'm not saying anything derogatory toward her, everything is very secretive. The first time my ex-husband disappeared for 3 days I was frantic, didn't know he had a drug problem, missed 2 days of work, didn't call in, didn't call me, I was about to report him missing, but he turned up. He sometimes would disappear for a week, depending on how much money he had. He hung out in bad areas with bad people, and somehow I was lucky enough to get away from him before I got involved in his problem. He had strange people calling, showing up at my house, looking for money, etc. etc. etc. It was a very sad tumultuous relationship. That's why he's my ex-husband, it was just too much to handle.