HelpMeRhonda
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My SIL was murdered in 2010. I understand rumor. We had a lot of that at first too, even the manor of death was wrong initially as well as the suspect. However, there can be some truth in rumors. They have to weed out the the bits of truth and trust me, there are bits and pieces of truth in there. They shouldn't be written off. In my opinion from personal experience, even thought its tough to see these things people say and you don't want all the "drama" it should not be deleted and ignored. Let people talk. You never know which person might hold the clue to finding her.
I also want to note, don't doubt everything your hear about your loved ones. I hear time and time again, "they would never do that" or "they aren't that kind of person" etc. You really don't know. Sadly, we too said some of the same things, but were proven wrong. You have to remain open to all options and outcomes. Rule no person out, not even family or best friends or even the person them self. The more limiting you are in what you will consider, the longer it will take to find out the truth.
I also want to note, don't doubt everything your hear about your loved ones. I hear time and time again, "they would never do that" or "they aren't that kind of person" etc. You really don't know. Sadly, we too said some of the same things, but were proven wrong. You have to remain open to all options and outcomes. Rule no person out, not even family or best friends or even the person them self. The more limiting you are in what you will consider, the longer it will take to find out the truth.