I was just out running errands, mulling over this case.
It occurred to me that if Ethan's parents had set up a plan to ruin his life from the time he was born, they honestly couldn't have come up with a more sure-fire plan to do it.
1. At an early age, make sure he feels he is invincible, and above the law. Demonstrate this often by downtalking LE, and committing petty crimes yourselves as an example. Make sure he sees you don't suffer any consequences.
2. Go through a messy divorce while he is still in elementary school. Dad, scoot mostly out of the picture. Mom, treat him as a trusted partner.
3. When he gets in minor scrapes with the law, make sure he doesn't suffer any consequences either legally or at home. Refuse to collaborate with other parents to make sure his grouping of friends doesn't create trouble. Don't follow up with the parents of other minors who are involved in scrapes with the law with him.
4. Provide him with a "muscle" car with a badboy reputation, and if his breaks down provide him with a better one temporarily.
5. Give him his own home when he is 14, and make it clear you will not be dropping by there to supervise him for weeks on end.
6. When he finally commits a crime the level of a felony, take responsibility for it yourselves, and whisk him away out of public eye. Don't provide additional supervision during his probationary time.
7. When he is caught violating probation and it's clear there's a warrant for his arrest, make sure you are successful in making him a fugitive from the law.
Really, it's surprising when you look at it - if their goal was to ruin his life, they honestly couldn't have come up with a more reliable plan. The more I look at this, the more I empathize with him and wonder about the mental health of his parents.