I am with Mark Klaus. I just can't help it. Where a lot of you see guilt, I see fear and determination. And everyone should remember that she is not talking to a person, she is talking into a camera. I can't even imagine what that would be like.
And, I'm sorry, I just not feeling it for Grandma. I am sure she loves HD very much. But I think that she has possibly exagerated the things HD had said to her....when she was 11. She reminds me of a Grandma that I know who can twist things to fit what she wants, believing that she is helping.
I think there is dysfunction on both sides of this family. I certainly do feel that BD has made some questionable (at best) choices for herself and her children. However, I do not feel that she had anything to do with HD disappearance. I for one see things in BD that I can identify with. After the road that I have walked, I find it hard to judge others.